We need to talk (dad to a daughter) - Jamaica Talk

tonguetwistnu · #1 (**permalink**) 11-13-2005, 06:15 PM

Sweetie, I'm starting to see rapid changes in you,
every since your 12th birthday nothing
is the same about you.
Is there something wrong?
I think its about time we had that
convo that parents dread to have.
Your mom aint around,
I'm feeling bad, somethings going
down.
I know your body is going through phases,
in your one years time you're in B cups,
when you were just in the A's.
You're feeling out, and boys are starting to
notice you,
Private school dresses are high up,
dem boys seem to be all over you.
Stay focus!
I know you are starting to like them too,
you probably have dreams of them,
around you, on you and maybe inside of you.
Your girls are asking have you kissed yet,
Asking if you have seen a D**k yet, or suck a
D**k yet?
Nightmares of sexing leaves your sheets wet.
But dont think daddy doesn't see or knows this yet!
I'm just asking you to be careful,
don't give in to a ear full,
of there player games,
they need you games,
I love you games,
then even hit you with the crying games.
I'll pass on the common sayings.
So you can laugh when they come your way.
But in my gut I feel I'm too late.
Cause my little princess can't look my way.
I read your email just the other day,
then to your diary, I cried that day,
it said you had a boy and you suck his that
day,
then you sex another boy the next three days.
He cohersed you with liqour,
you even hit a jay, before he kissed ya,
Now you scared about what I would say
or think of you,
But daddy still cares and loves you too.
I'm here if you need to talk,
don't hesitate, try not to blow me off.
I understand that inside is killing you to tell
daddy, that a man has taken away your precious
cookies.
But let that time be the last and never turn back,
I was too late to talk you, inside I'm mad.
Talking to you I see tears appear then drip
down your face,
you mumble and while talking, you're crying to
it was hurting, "Then you say"
that I had sex with this boy, unprotected the other day,
I said its ok, but she know its not,
cause I missed my period a month ago,
Dayum, this time to talk was way too late!

**pinchy** · #2 (**permalink**) 11-13-2005, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tonguetwistnu

Sweetie, I'm starting to see rapid changes in you,
every since your 12th birthday nothing
is the same about you.
Is there something wrong?
I think its about time we had that
convo that parents dread to have.
Your mom aint around,
I'm feeling bad, somethings going
down.
I know your body is going through phases,
in your one years time you're in B cups,
when you were just in the A's.
You're feeling out, and boys are starting to
notice you,
Private school dresses are high up,
dem boys seem to be all over you.
Stay focus!
I know you are starting to like them too,
you probably have dreams of them,
around you, on you and maybe inside of you.
Your girls are asking have you kissed yet,
Asking if you have seen a D**k yet, or suck a
D**k yet?
Nightmares of sexing leaves your sheets wet.
But dont think daddy doesn't see or knows this yet!
I'm just asking you to be careful,
don't give in to a ear full,
of there player games,
they need you games,
I love you games,
then even hit you with the crying games.
I'll pass on the common sayings.
So you can laugh when they come your way.
But in my gut I feel I'm too late.
Cause my little princess can't look my way.
I read your email just the other day,
then to your diary, I cried that day,
it said you had a boy and you suck his that
day,
then you sex another boy the next three days.
He cohersed you with liqour,
you even hit a jay, before he kissed ya,
Now you scared about what I would say
or think of you,
But daddy still cares and loves you too.
I'm here if you need to talk,
don't hesitate, try not to blow me off.
I understand that inside is killing you to tell
daddy, that a man has taken away your precious
cookies.
But let that time be the last and never turn back,
I was too late to talk you, inside I'm mad.
Talking to you I see tears appear then drip
down your face,
you mumble and while talking, you're crying to
it was hurting, "Then you say"
that I had sex with this boy, unprotected the other day,
I said its ok, but she know its not,
cause I missed my period a month ago,
Dayum, this time to talk was way too late!

**head shakes up and down** i got nothing more to say

Jelakins · #3 (**permalink**) 11-13-2005, 06:38 PM

That scares me....

Sooo much...

How do I protect mine??

windypace · #4 (**permalink**) 11-14-2005, 03:55 AM

Wow Twisty... nice job....

I guess my parents were so open about sex that I didn't have any problem going to my mom...

I remember telling her flat out that I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend and wanted to be on birth control...

The following week she had me at the Doctor's office getting me on birth control...

But my mom's theory was that if you are old enough to ask a question then you are old enough to know the answer... And when I asked where babies come from at 5... she told me the truth... not some fluff about storks and nonsense... Personally, I am not really looking forward to these conversations either but I will have them when the time comes.

dudley one · #5 (**permalink**) 11-14-2005, 08:30 AM

well for all parents that have daughters teach them well, because there are so many boy's out there that don't know the fool score, and also will score as many trophy points possible, and the scary part is they will take a chance not to wear protection. because of the skin to skin feeling. [sad,sad ah well]