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greeting, folks. newbie here. seems like the way to get started is to say hello and give a little snapshot on why I am here...so here goes....
I am a thirty something american girl who just spent a few lovely months traveling throughout the caribbean. I spent several weeks in jamaica....where I managed to fall head over heels for a sweet and delicious jamaican man. now I am back in the states and cannot get the man out of my mind. so since my mind is wondering to jamaica all the time, I thought I might try to chase down some people who might have something to say on the matter.
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06-20-2008, 04:39 PM
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Welcome Welcome.. Mi fuss fi welcome woiii 
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06-20-2008, 04:41 PM
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06-20-2008, 04:46 PM
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I have not been to aruba....yet. this last time around I did the virgin islands (us and british), jamaica and the bahamas. I don't even know what to say about the sexy jamaican except I got it bad for him. and unfortunately...I don't think it could ever work. which is totally depressing.
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06-20-2008, 04:50 PM
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Welcome Kingston.
Don't worry, you'll fit in here with all the other depressed females who met a Jamaican man LOLOL
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06-20-2008, 07:54 PM
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Re: newbie here
Hello, I am a newbie too. I met a Ja man here in the states at work He has been here 20 years, so the situation is a little different. I came upon this site by accident and have learned lots about Ja men (or men in general) from these folks.
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Are you in contact with him? Why do you say it probably won't work. If it won't, the heartache will disappear with time. I've also experienced the vacation romance - it's easy in that climate and no job to go to!!! None ever worked for me. It was just a week or two in wonderland. Then back home to reality. That was me anyway. Well, listen to these people. They have given me some good advice and then some!
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06-20-2008, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by kingston_love
I have not been to aruba....yet. this last time around I did the virgin islands (us and british, jamaica and the bahamas). I don't even know what to say about the sexy jamaican except I got it bad for him. and unfortunately...I don't think it could ever work. which is totally depressing.
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Oh well enjoy it while it lasts gurl, yu neva kno 
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06-20-2008, 08:36 PM
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nice to know there are some other ladies feeling my pain. although I am bummed to hear of the sadness of others.
yes....we talk. everyday when I first got back...but the calls are fewer and farther between these days. I am actually going back to visit for the weekend in a few weeks. but he has a life there and I don't really think there is a place for me in it. I would love to think that if we dig each other enough, fate would work things out. but I know better.
so...at the risk of sounding ignorant...tell me...in jamaica, what is the view on jamaican men dating white women?
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I wonder if dating actually excists in JA, here in Aruba only 10% of the population actually dates
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06-20-2008, 08:41 PM
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what does the other 90% do?
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06-20-2008, 08:44 PM
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Don't worry, King, I've had my share of sounding ignorant here!!! And I was told so (in a tactful way, usually).
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06-20-2008, 09:20 PM
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welcome!
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06-20-2008, 10:52 PM
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what does the other 90% do?
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Ova yaso yu gotta give it up BEFORE you even get Burger King, hence I am sexless now
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06-21-2008, 08:57 AM
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oh boy!  lol. take some time to read around here and you should find all the advice you need.
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Welcome to the family.
Never doubt fate, my Dear. With love, all things are possible (or, is that impossible?)
Where in Florida are you? We're fixin' to have a pretty monumental link-up in a few weeks and we'd love to have you join us!
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