In loving memory of......... - Jamaica Talk

GhettoGurl · #1 (**permalink**) 11-25-2006, 09:29 AM

This thread is for you to take ur time, express ur feelings about having lost a person in ur life....

Somtimes we dont get to tell all we wanted to say, this has happened to me and after being able to write it down somewhere I felt some kind of relieve... and was able to say goodbye... my poem was my goodbye for Hylano.. never did get to say goodbye to someone else though.. so I will do that in here.

MarsGirl76 · #2 (**permalink**) 11-25-2006, 02:18 PM

Hey GG,
Great thread!
This one goes out to my mom.

She was a very happy and smiling woman. Stong and brave. Whenever she said a cuss word or talked dirty it shocked us all! lol She had a great sense of humor and was very supportive of me. I miss her like crazy but I know she is watching over me now and she will be at my wedding whenever it happens and she will be there when my future children are born.

Mom,
I love you and thank you for all you did for me. Thank you for giving me life and for believing in me when nobody else did. You are my sunshine always and forever.
Goodbye for now, until we meet again...

GhettoGurl · #3 (**permalink**) 11-25-2006, 02:26 PM

Dear Mia (My Best Friend Farrah's Mother)

Dear Mia, I have been thinking about you lately and realised that I never had my peace with your passing.. I don't get it.. I guess I am selfish for not wanting to let you go.. I cant say my peace because I dont think its fair... Mia Dushi, I loved you very much, you was like a mother to me.. to see you suffer like that.. it broke my heart…I still don’t understand why our father did not spare you the pain, if he had already known your life was coming to an end why didn’t he take you when you were still able to smile... why did he let you suffer for three long years... if the end of ur life was already written.. why not cut it shorter to prevend all of the pain? It killed ur family to see you like that, three beautiful daughters... Farrah, Mimi & Lisa left behind... A husband...ur family...... and then "us" Naty, Julisa and me.... We loved you like our own mother... we never got to say goodbye.. and new years will never be the same.. how I wish I got to hold you before you left us.. but I was afraid to hurt you.... I cant believe that it is almost a year ago now... I miss you, we all do

I have never returned to her grave... I might go tomorrow.. I need to seek comfort.. I just cant get her out of my mind these days...

Mia Mi Dushi... may u rest in peace.. Heaven Gained an Angel Thats 4 Sure On Dec 31st 2005

6_Dimples · #4 (**permalink**) 11-25-2006, 03:35 PM

This is in loving memory of my uncle Chris, whose life was taken suddenly. He was a great pleasure to be around, and althought our time spent together was short, it was worthwhile. He was the kindest and most sincere person I have met in a while and he alwasy keeps it real. I just wish he would have stayed a little longer so that more people could have seen what a wonderful person he was.

This is in loving memory of a friend I lost during primary school. He had drowned in a river because of being such a daredevil.
Although he was thought of as a disresectful person, I will always respect him for his honesty. He was the one who basically inspired me to stand up for my rights and not to let people with the upper hand put me down...

I LOVE THEM BOTH>

GhettoGurl · #5 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 03:30 PM

JG & Alex... maybe you can come here... I'll hug you guys...(well Alex just for a second

)

LadyH · #6 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 03:50 PM

Good thread GG.....way too deep for me right now. My condolences to those that have shared I am very sorry for your loss.

Jomo's girl · #7 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 03:58 PM

My friend's name was Tammy. She was pretty much the exact opposite, appearance-wise. We met at our brother's soccer game when I literally fell out of a tree and nearly crushed her. We were the best of friends through Jr. High and High school. Sometime after graduation, we went our seperate ways. I thought it was just life taking over; but it must've been something else, something I cannot pinpoint.

Over the years, I tried to catch up with her.....everyone knew us as being unseperable, so they always told me what she was up to. My Mom worked at the same hospital as her and she broke the news to me Tammy had ovarian cancer.

I tried even hard over the years to reach her, never being able to break through. And, never finding out what I did....what happened. Nearly 4 years ago (January) she passed away. I went to the wake and funeral, crying and cursing God for never helping me find out what happened. To this day, I mourn her and think of her often. This year's World Series win was especially difficult because the last time the Cardinal's won, Tammy and I celebrated each win in really crazy ways with her equally crazy family! I cried when we won cause she was not there to celebrate with me.

If I could do it all over again, I would apologize for whatever I had done in any way necessary. We had the most wonderful times together....crazy teenage times....all the fun, pain, triumphs, mistakes, loves, losses....I grew up in those years with her. I so wanted to grow old with her. I miss the deep connection only your best girlfriend can have with you. One day, I hope to have that again.

GhettoGurl · #8 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 04:02 PM

Thanx for sharing babe

Dejavoux · #9 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 04:11 PM

Grenny,

You were my Momma, my teacher, my nurse, my psycologist, my confidant, my right arm and my best friend. I love you and will miss you always.

Alex93 · #10 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GhettoGurl

JG & Alex... maybe you can come here... I'll hug you guys...(well Alex just for a second

)

Thanks GG.
Justthe thought of your hug is comfort enough.

JASpice · #11 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 06:25 PM

Its hard to talk about losing someone and my sympathy goes out to those of you that have lost loved ones.

I personally have a hard time talking about my lost. Reason being...don't want anyone to feel sorry for me...(strange I know). But I will try this and see how it goes. I truly am sad when I am reminded....but I really wish I had the chance to have met and raised my unborn baby that I lost 4 years ago. I know I will see him in heaven someday and that will be a joyous moment. I love and miss him as if I spent many years with him.

GhettoGurl · #12 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 06:27 PM

I know how that feels sweetie... I got hylano on my mind all the time

Untill we're together again!!!!!!!!

JASpice · #13 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GhettoGurl

I know how that feels sweetie... I got hylano on my mind all the time

Untill we're together again!!!!!!!!

It's strange I even mention it on here....This is something I usually keep to myself. Guess it reminds me how precious life really is .

catherine1971 · #14 (**permalink**) 12-05-2006, 07:16 PM

i would just like to say how much i miss my step daughter jas she was also my best friend,we went everywere together shopping,clubbing,we had so many laughs.not a day goes by were i dont think about her.i was with her holding her hand when she slipped away.she was only 20yrs of age,she was beautiful and courageous.luekamia is wot stole her away from us through all the pain she went through she never moaned once she always smiled.thats how i,ll always remember you jas, with your big,beautiful smile.

always in my thoughts jas.xxxx

GhettoGurl · #15 (**permalink**) 12-06-2006, 09:07 AM

Thank u for sharing!!!!