My unexpected journey . . . - Page 17 - Jamaica Talk

Lillywight · #**241** (**permalink**) 06-23-2008, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 1stParadigm

I hear you Lilly, guess its always easier to give advice when you're not the one in the actual situation. It will take time, but you will sort things out in the end, Just protect yourself girl, as best you can, ok!......in my thoughts and prayers as always.

Thank you, 1stP. It means so much to me that you keep me close in thought and prayer.

1stParadigm · #**242** (**permalink**) 06-23-2008, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Lillywight

Thank you, 1stP. It means so much to me that you keep me close in thought and prayer.

Everytime girl, everytime

Jomo's girl · #**243** (**permalink**) 06-23-2008, 07:43 PM

Don't sell yourself short, Lilly. Your grace is always within you even if you are up on that ledge.

MissB · #**244** (**permalink**) 06-23-2008, 08:44 PM

OMG... Lilly... When I saw this thread in "new posts" my heart skipped a beat... Thankfully, there was no news that I hadn't already known! Phewwwwwww....

You know I love you and am always here for you... You are really and truly one of the strongest women I know... for so many more reasons than demonstrated in this thread!!!

Lillywight · #**245** (**permalink**) 06-23-2008, 09:57 PM

Thanks, Chica!

Well . . . she obviously got my PM that I sent on the other site -- and it immeidately prompted a phone call to Corey, LOL. She said that she would file for divorce when the "Lord" told her to do so . . . I sure hope he's not in a rush for finality with her.

MissB · #**246** (**permalink**) 06-24-2008, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Lillywight

Thanks, Chica!

Well . . . she obviously got my PM that I sent on the other site -- and it immeidately prompted a phone call to Corey, LOL. She said that she would file for divorce when the "Lord" told her to do so . . . I sure hope he's not in a rush for finality with her.

Oh my goodness... me too.

Reggaediva · #**247** (**permalink**) 06-24-2008, 07:57 AM

Wow, Lilly, I wasn't aware of Shandy - It's a tough situation to be in, and I know that when I went through it with my ex, I looked at flights a bazillion times - it took me 4 years and a tragedy to go back and talk to him face to face. Ironically, I had a trip booked for January one year, and he called on Christmas - talking to him made me change my trip and I ended up back in JA after many years of not going (kismet?)

Stay strong, and do what you have to do to heal, piece yourself together, rebuild, rant, rave, whatever - You know I am here for you at any time girl!

uptowngirl · #**248** (**permalink**) 06-24-2008, 01:11 PM

I just hope that woman does not allow for COREY to tear her life apart or allow for him to use her, if he hasn't already done so. It so much harder when your heart is involved.........Karm is a beioch though, he will get his.

Jomo's girl · #**249** (**permalink**) 06-24-2008, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by uptowngirl

I just hope that woman does not allow for COREY to tear her life apart or allow for him to use her, if he hasn't already done so. It so much harder when your heart is involved.........Karm is a beioch though, he will get his.

I'm afraid that it is way too late, UTG. Even after she knew, she let it continue.

nikki_salmon · #**250** (**permalink**) 06-27-2008, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Lillywight

Periodically, I check to see how many times this thread's been viewed. It's kinda scary -- kinda amazing. I suspect "she's" read it prolly 5750 times! LOL.

don't flatter yourself, gyal. sad

JamCan · #**251** (**permalink**) 06-27-2008, 05:11 PM

Welcome Nikki.

Lillywight · #**252** (**permalink**) 06-28-2008, 07:56 AM

Welcome to ETJ, Nikki! Come often. Post frequently! Good to have you!

blakboitoi · #**253** (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 08:21 AM

...i feel ashamed to say ive never read this thread before. such sad stories and im afraid similar to many, many i already know of. pm's coming to those concerned.

Jomo's girl · #**254** (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 09:07 AM

Good to see you again, Nikki. I hope you are well.

1stParadigm · #**255** (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 06:59 PM