Live next door??

Well if he does just give me a call.
I'd be delighted to come down and build you a nice little "fence" between his house and yours.

No Problem, Mon.

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I'm there!!!

Don't shoosh me, I find that very demeaning.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

True dat...
But in trying to protect someone else (in the past) cost me my best friend.
Still, I agree witcha.

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Well no one more than you know that I would never demean you.

Will a prayer painting make it up to you?

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Originally Posted by Smile Jamaica I said that same thing. I believe he will reappear again too. Lilly will be so strong by then she will blow him off like Hurricane Ivan!!!!!!

Well he will attempt to.
How couldnt he?

After all, a criminal always (try to) return to the scene of the crime.

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Hhhmmmm . . . maybe I should be the one to teach her the lesson that if she marries a cheating man then she gets a cheating husband? That could be fun. I'd love to tell her "I told you so!"

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Naw, You're better than that.

Believe me...They deserve each other.

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You won't do it, Lilly. No matter how stupid you think she is, you have compassion. You are too kind and gentle to actually make that statement out loud to her. Thinking it on the other hand...................

I don't think anyone deserves to learn the painful lesson she is going to learn. Being young, stupid, and less then self-confident is not a good enough reason to me. I'm sorry.....I know she she has made some stupid choices. I still feel sorry for her.

But on the other side of the fence...
Who is to say that he will not make her happy?
Maybe he will never change his ways; but if he makes her happy and she is contented with it, then so be it.

Sad to say that they are still millions of women out there who, because of low self esteeem are content to settle for less than they are worth.


Maybe we chould just wish them both the best of life, close that chapter and move on to a brighter tomorrow.

Remember, it rains equally on the just as well as the unjust.

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I like your last line, Alex.

Could you close this thread now? I think it's served it's purpose.

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I'm not so sure if closing it is the appropriate thing to do.
But under the circumstances, I will respect your wishes and do so.
...pending any further actions by admin.

Your wish is my command.
Just hang in there, Sugar.

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Lilly,
At times like this, I feel like tits on a Bull, but still, I am here for you.

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Thank you, Alex. I know you're here for me. You've proven yourself a zillion times in the past few weeks. Thank you for being there for me.

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I requested that this thread be reopened because, quite frankly, you were all correct when you said that I'd hear from him again. I guess I never believed that he'd have the guts to contact me after what he did to me and to my family, but I was wrong. I, at least, thought it would be months, if not years, before he re-established contact . . . but, again, I was wrong.

I had hoped it would be months or years because I wanted to be strong when/if he called . . . I wanted to be "over it" and be able to keep walking and continue living and not be crippled by the communication.

Again . . . WRONG! I'm sure you'll have seen my posts in the past few days. It's been an emotional week -- very emotional. I daresay that this week has been far more difficult to endure than the week that my relationship with Corey caved back in October.

Since then, I've done a fairly good job of getting myself on track. I've had moments, hours, and days that were bad, but for the most part, I was living -- and happy. I had re-established friendships with my single girlbuddies, been out dancing, done a little "dating", and had made myself a priority (by continuing a weight loss plan I'd started the beginning of October). Work was crazy. I was busy with the holidays . . . living unassumingly . . .

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. . . until Monday when I got a voicemail message on my cell from Corey's sister. I knew the minute I heard her voice that "something was wrong".

I returned her call and left her a message. I did not hear back from her until Tuesday evening. I was out doing a little Xmas shopping with my daughters, Sienna and Sikora.

I didn't answer the first time she called. I had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. Besides, I'd made a $75 bet earlier that day with my gurlbuddy, Jenni, that I wouldn't hear from Corey at all -- or if I heard from him, it wouldn't be before June, 2008.

When she called the second time, I knew it was gonna cost me $75.

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