Wow it took mi last night to get thru this thread and the visa journey one...Lily my oh my what can I say that others havent said already? Im happy for all the support you've had please consider my support and best wishes. You will find true love don't worry it's hard I know about two years ago was in a somewhat similar position bugt this gu was British he was trying to play me but thank goodness it didnt go too far we didn't even get intimate and Im sooo glad because to how I felt I imagined how much worse I would feel if we had I know the feelings ur going thru now Ive been there a few times. Ur on the mend now. Lots of love to you honey.

Reggae Diva ur story was soooo sad. Thank you for sharing it was special. Love 2 u too.

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I appreciate your post, Chynawitch. The relationship is dying a slow, sweet death . . . it's taking time, but I'm stronger now than I was 8 months ago. I'm not sorry the experience and I refuse to be bitter.

As for love, nah -- I don't think so. I'm concentrating on my next career move.

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Good for you! That's a smart idea. No I know it's not a good idea to head str8 into another relationship anyway (from experince) you need time to heal and it is happening. Keep ur head up Pretty.

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I know I'll meet some girls in Jamaica but I hope I don't have an "unexpected journey" and fall in love with a girl. I don't think I could do long distance relationships. 30 miles away is long distance to me.

LOL there you are with that 30mile rule again...lololol

hope some sweet lil Jamaican girl doesn't captue your heart...it could happen

I've probably talked to 15 girls while calling places in Jamaica for information and I've found myself loving their voices. I called the Altamont West in Montego Bay today and while talking to the girl her voice was flirty and the way she ended the conversation sent a shiver down my spine....haha.

I might have to move to Jamaica to stick to my "rule"...lol.

Di Jamaican gyals dem ah sexy.......you could be in for chobble!

lol....I got into some trouble.

New it!!!!! Just don't start Western unioining them money ok?

Don't worry, I won't. Not saying only Jamaicans would do this but this girl isn't Jamaican. I seemed to have potential with every other girl than Jamaican girls down there interestingly enough.

Almost every guy I met was willing to sell me a Jamaican girl for the night though.