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Originally Posted by msincognito
I found it best to give him space when he is in one of his "moods".......
I do have a little confession, I spoke to one of his coworkers while he was here...and HE told me that he does not think that "my friend" was looking for a relationship.
But now that I think about it I don't know if I should take his coworkers word for it because in the same breath his coworker was asking me to set him up with someone who could pass for my twin.
Anyway...back to " my friend" ....after I gave him space he noticed that I was being distant and not calling as much....now he is calling me more and asking me why I have not called him.
I know he just left but I do miss him alot....we spoke last night and he wants to know when am I coming to see him again.....
So I am here trying to figure out what to do next....any suggestions?
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First of all, that looking for your twin thing........DO NOT fall for that crappola. I have heard that a hundred times at least. They much teach them that line in JA MAN school. Jeez!!!!!
Not knowing your man, I don't want to bash him. He may be perfectly wonderful and all that. I am just going to say, speaking from experience, my "stalker" was exactly like this and it ended badly. I really think it is all about control. They like to have you keep coming back. If you hold back even a little they actively pursue you until you are hooked again and before you know it, you are the one begging to see them. Play with him. I wouldn't get serious. I think that boy is a playa!!!