The story kinda reminds me of us in a way... well, with many exceptions, but it does a little bit!!

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Its always nice when he can come here to visit!!!!!!!
Nice story!!!! Dont you just love ja???

Thanks...I am trying to be realistic this time, I have a tendency to get caught up with my emotions....So going slow is definitely better for me.

I love ja more and more with each visit.....

***Mini Udate***

Thanks for all the support! He surprised me by arriving into NY today...he has family here and he surprised everyone. I am still speechless because he was planning this since our last conversation about the next time we were going to spend time together.

More later.

Well if he's there what the hell are you doing on ETJ???? LOL

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I agree with JC. Wait till he returns to Ja and then come on here and tell us about his visit, at least the things you can reveal on ETJ.

wait wait.....the first trip was to be "kinda long" now he is in NY and we only at page 2.......wow

That is such a cool surprise!! Bwoy...I wish that would happen to me!!!

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yeah for real......I like surprises too...I am sure she is estatic

Update:

Yes he surprised me.....and I was very happy to see him. However, since it has been a few years since he has seen his family in NY he spent a lot of time with them. I was a little disappointed but the time we did get to spend together I learned more about him.... like he is moody at times and a little impatient...so we clashed a little while he was here, but we made up for it.

I dont see him wanting a relationship which is ok with me, since I am not quite sure if I can handle a long distance relationship.

Do i still like him, definitely... and I will keep seeing him, and what happens...happens.

Wow, not really what I expected for the ending. Kind of makes me sad now.

Good to find some of these things out now rather then later.

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I agree, he kind of sounds like Rupert - Moody!!!

Thank God, I am not in that boat. I don't do well with moody men.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

I found it best to give him space when he is in one of his "moods".......

I do have a little confession, I spoke to one of his coworkers while he was here...and HE told me that he does not think that "my friend" was looking for a relationship.

But now that I think about it I don't know if I should take his coworkers word for it because in the same breath his coworker was asking me to set him up with someone who could pass for my twin.

Anyway...back to " my friend" ....after I gave him space he noticed that I was being distant and not calling as much....now he is calling me more and asking me why I have not called him.

I know he just left but I do miss him alot....we spoke last night and he wants to know when am I coming to see him again.....

So I am here trying to figure out what to do next....any suggestions?