From another thread....I agree with you 100% Nandii. And yes, this was OFF the topic of the other thread...KC we just talked about that last night so I started a new thread dedicated to this "issue".

Are you guys compiling information for your new documentary on "the secret life and times of ETJ women?" KC's the only one in here who freely offers up his opinion, even at the risk of ruffling some feathers. What's up with you guys anyways?

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Confession: My name is M.Jackson and I like to "Free willy".

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The opinions expressed by Samba are not the official opinions of ETJ or its owners.

This message is to all the guys:

Let us handle our business, It's so absurd that it seems to me that some of our female members think we are the ones that keep silent here. We only ask all the personal questions and they do all the answering. I beg to differ.

I have asked several questions in here and have to edit or coerce female members to answer, why do we have some hot headed females in hear so angry?

Plus there are many topics in here where the men share their intimate issues, so why the paradox? Damn (anyway not pointing fingers)

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See that's what I'm talkin about.....good for you Samba for confessing your secret! You'll be rewarded for that!

I personally like "light-hearted" topics and moods better than all the heated debates and politics. That's why its refreshing and entertaining for me to read such quotes by Samba, KC and all the jokers around here.

Notice I NEVER reply to any of the news and politics threads? Plus I like everyone in here so I don't wanna argue with anyone. Some just need to lighten up sometimes....not pointing fingers at anyone.

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I like to joke sometimes too but I think it's important to keep your mind stimulated with more serious topics as well. KC is wonderful in that he can hold a conversation about ANYTHING!

It refreshing to note that I am accepted and like by some in here. I try to be a rounded member instead of being just a dictator, I debate topics because they keep the topics alive. If its sex or jokes I keep them going. Instead of having a topic end the only way to keep them going is to have others share their opinions, but why should others bash you for what you think or those that try to tell you are talking **** because one don't agree with what you are saying. I grew up learning that open discussion is best, if we all shun from talking about what we know or beleive then we'll have more topics not going anywhere, because if someone makes a point and we refuse to debate or discuss becuase we fear the other person will object then this site will just be about jokes, sex & games.

We all need to respect others views instead of bashing each other, we can debate without degrading each other. Free Speech to all. Peace and love.

P.S. sorry for the long post.

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Exactly, KC. You see how we go back and forth when we are passionate about a subject and our opinions differ? I like that. It's STIMULATING! I don't need for people to agree with me because we are ALL different. And, when you hear a different view point, you learn. And, I'm all about self-education.

exactly, love ya

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I'm all about catching up to KC's # of posts so Nandii, if you keep arguing with him I'm NEVER gonna catch up! LOL

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Love ya too.

B***h, that's your problem! (And, to clarify, I mean b***h in a good way. You know I like you when I call you a b***h. However, if you don't want me to joke with you that way, I won't. To further clarify, it is NEVER okay for MEN to joke in this way! Just so there's no confusion).

That is why you keep posting some insignificant oneliners, girl is this what this about? Ok I will stop so you can catch me up since it's so important to you I trade places easily because my moderatorship drains me and I could spend more time doing that. Maybe I could use the time to encourage more guys to give up their code of silence.

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See the battle of the sexes has begun again. why the seperation? what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Biatch.

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KC everything I have to say is significant!!! Don't slow down on your posts though, I love it fast and I love the thrill of the chase.
And anyone on this board can call me a b**ch whenever they want, usually its a term of endearment amoung you people in here! LOL
If anyone says it for real......nasty like......I'll reach my hand through this screen and grab your neck!!!!

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