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BettyCzech · #61 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by lbelly

Girl please stop explaining urself, Im sure Spice has done her dirt and is now married to Jesus, and now wants to shake her finger at everyone else, just like a good Christian! lololol...i very much know how to balance my social life, as well as being a great mother, it is possible...people that don't know how to do that cant imagine how we do it so let them judge, its all gravy

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE UNDERSTANDING, I GOT SO MAD....AS IF GOING OUT ONCE A WEEK MADE YOU A BAD MUM...I CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT. I SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY BABY THAN ANY OTHER MUM, HIRED AN ASSISTANT FOR MY COMPANY TO BE ABLE TO SPEND ALL THE AFTENOONS WITH HER AND THEN YOU HEAR THIS

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lbelly · #62 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 10:51 AM

Well, i sleep around, and there AINT NO SHAME IN MY GAME! LOLOL..I do what i want, when i choose to...i guess i must be the devil himself!

lbelly · #63 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE UNDERSTANDING, I GOT SO MAD....AS IF GOING OUT ONCE A WEEK MADE YOU A BAD MUM...I CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT. I SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY BABY THAN ANY OTHER MUM, HIRED AN ASSISTANT FOR MY COMPANY TO BE ABLE TO SPEND ALL THE AFTENOONS WITH HER AND THEN YOU HEAR THIS

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No worries girl, there is no manual, its our intentions that count...Like i said, u are not going to do that baby any good by filling ur head with regrets..be thankful you have help and live your life..Many people i know forget about themselves when they have a kid, IMO, that is wrong, u are still a person, i take vacations with and without my kids too...mine are 12 and 7, i've always had help, so i've always been able to do me, when i wanted to and our circle is just fine.

BettyCzech · #64 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by lbelly

Well, i sleep around, and there AINT NO SHAME IN MY GAME! LOLOL..I do what i want, when i choose to...i guess i must be the devil himself!

PROBABLY YOU ARE, AND DAMNED TOO

I WISH THE DAY COMES AND I CAN COMPLETELY FORGET MY EX PARTNER AND DO THE SAME....SO MANY BEAUTIES OUT THERE...WAITING...

BettyCzech · #65 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by lbelly

No worries girl, there is no manual, its our intentions that count...Like i said, u are not going to do that baby any good by filling ur head with regrets..be thankful you have help and live your life..Many people i know forget about themselves when they have a kid, IMO, that is wrong, u are still a person, i take vacations with and without my kids too...mine are 12 and 7, i've always had help, so i've always been able to do me, when i wanted to and our circle is just fine.

I AM INDEED VERY HAPPY TO HAVE MY MUM WHO IS A WIDOW AND WOULD LOVE TO HAVE MY BABY WITH HER ALL THE TIME, IF SHE COULD

) LUCKY GIRL I AM TOO. I TRIED TO BE THE PREFECT MOTHER, AS THEY CALL IT, ONLY LIVE FOR THE CHILD, ALWAYS WITH HER AND I FOUND MYSELF TIRED AND EXHAUSTED TO DEATH, I WAS IRRITATED, LONGED FOR A CHILDLESS LIFE.NOW THAT I FOUND SOME BALANCE, I SEE SUCH A HUGE DIFFERENCE,I AM ACTUALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO BEING WITH HER AND SPENDING TIME WITH HER....

BettyCzech · #66 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 11:01 AM

Gosh, But I Really Got Mad.i Was Even Thinking Of Establishing A Club For : I Have My Own Life Mothers As The Stereotype Works Here Too.....will Put Myself In Action As I Hate To Be Taken As A Bad Mother, Not Always Being Behind My Babies Ass.
Plus I Think For The Children It Is Only Benefitial, They Become More Independent....

BettyCzech · #67 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by JASpice

That is most definitely a sin lady! Sleeping around with a secret partner is not very appropriate while raising a child either. And planning to not have children while sleeping around is definitely NOT a full proof plan!! lol

Absolutely no stability having a bf from time to time... what kind of example is this?? Oh wait... I forgot, they are secret lovers.

Oh... and still trying to figure out how the weekends work from Londen to Prague...that's quite the traveling father.... nice to see the dedication from him.

LOL.... First you are carefree... then you are not! You need to get your story straight lady!!

Ironic mentioning being Catholic...lol. Anyhow, it doesn't matter if you are catholic, Lutheran, or baptist.... If you are indeed Christian then your way of life IMO is indeed sinful. Secret Lovers kinda tops the list of what is wrong. lol.

What issues would God have with you.... you seriously do not want me to answer this do you??

Where does God fall into this..... well, first of all God should have everything to do with how you live, act, and raise your child. But initially my response is related to your earlier post ....

AND CAN YOU EXPLAIN ME WHAT GOD? IS THE BUDDHA, THE MUSLIM GOD OR WHICH GOD, JASPICE? AND HASNT GOD CREATED ME THE WAY HE WANTED ME TO HAVE? THIS IS WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND? DOESNT RELIGION TEACH YOU TO BE TOLLERANT AND UNDERSTANDING? OR DOES THE TOLLERENCE ONLY COME TO PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE THE SAME WAY YOU DO? OR DO I HAVE TO FOLLOW THE BIBLE, A BOOK WRITTEN BY HUMAN BEINGS TO BE GOOD IN GODS EYES? WELL, THEN I WILL WRITE MY OWN BIBLE AND WE WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS...

BettyCzech · #68 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 11:16 AM

LOL... she's thirty and it doesnt take a rocket scientist to read all of her stuff and realize that it's pure entertainment.

WELL, YES I LIVE AN ENTRTAINING LIFE.I HAVE FUN WORKING, I HAVE FUN GOING OUT AND I HAVE FUN RAISING UP MY CHILD.I DO NOT SEE ANY OF THESE AS A BURDEN.I AM ALL ABOUT ENTERTAINMENT, BECAUSE I SEE THE BETTER SIDE IN ALL I DO. IT SEEMS LIKE YOU TAKE YOUR MOTHERHOOD AS PURE SACRIFICE.....SORRY BOUT THAT, FOR ME IT IS FUN....

Alex4Ja · #69 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by LuvmyJAman

Any way everyone is warning me about him and no one knows him. Friends, family has something to say how all jamaican men are dogs and they just want to come here to the USA or they want money. .

Really???
I thought that term was attributed to MEN, in general...regardless of where they were from.

BettyCzech · #70 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex4Ja

Really???
I thought that term was attributed to MEN, in general...regardless of where they were from.

OF COURSE THEY ARE ALL DOGS, THAT IS WHAT WE LIKE ABOUT THEM...AT LEAST ME

Alex4Ja · #71 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

OF COURSE THEY ARE ALL DOGS, THAT IS WHAT WE LIKE ABOUT THEM...AT LEAST ME

Ruff-Ruff!

BettyCzech · #72 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex4Ja

Ruff-Ruff!

MIAOW MIAOW

BettyCzech · #73 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex4Ja

Ruff-Ruff!

OR SHALL I SAY CLUCK, CLUCK INSTEAD

JASpice · #74 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by lbelly

I really don't see the hostility toward her comments

There is no parenting manual and parenting styles differ...i mean, im sure everyone doesn't agree with stuff i do, but im a damn good mother and proof is in the pudding, my kids are great...Who are u to shake ur head at her? She obviously has family to help her, just cause she's 30 doesn't mean she's supposed to know all...i mean, wisdom comes from expierience...

Hostility??? LOL ..... naw, there is no intent of hostility. All of the comments and posts don't add up IMO and I am not the gullible one and will not be.

I'm just shaking my head at the stories.... it has nothing to do with her and how she mothers. It's obvious I don't agree.... but that has nothing to do with why I am laughing.

I'll juss sit back and watch the theatrics... I have no interest in being a part of it any further.

........ Stepping out

1stParadigm · #75 (**permalink**) 10-27-2009, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by JASpice

Only a mother that doesn't care enuff about their child/ren or a girl that hasn't had a child would make a comment as such!!

Spice what on earth got into you