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BettyCzech · #16 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 01:31 PM

there is a proverb here in my country: If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans....
and i see it as that.I embrace whatever comes to me and I do not believe my will will change a thing, I believe it is all written down and the only thing I can do is keep my face up and bear all with dignity or enjoy to the fullest the beautiful moments...

lbelly · #17 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

I do not share the opinion that we ought to think about our future. I have never thought about my career, about me and my bf plans, I just took things as they came. Fine, having a baby makes you think differently, I agree, but still only to a certain degree...
and who said that if i make a sensible decision today, I will not regret tomorrow?
I think there are too many sensible people thinking too much about the future in this world and too few dreamers....
and there are so few truly gorgeous and magical moments in life that I am not going to mees them up by thinking about the future as i can only see tomorrow.and I can be dead even by tomorrow so I want to enjoy tody...

btw: what is lillie white?

Lilly is a member that has supposedly left the forum, members get scared away and then come back with different names. See the thing about ETJ is that foreign women will go to JA and fall in love with these boys who make it their business to prey on foreign women. No one is saying that its impossible or stupid to love a ja man, i love one, but he is not a leech trying to get his papers! That is what they do, they carry on these long term relationships, in hopes to get out, with you and whomever else...and its pretty silly that grown women with children fall for the game.

Lady Rasta · #18 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by bountyx

Endorsed.

Not endorsed. You are not cut out for P.I. work. Don't quit your day job kennjai.

LOLOLOL...i could be a PI...LOL..and its OK if you think im Kennjai (even though, u KNOW it aint so)..LOL--

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

I do not share the opinion that we ought to think about our future. I have never thought about my career, about me and my bf plans, I just took things as they came. Fine, having a baby makes you think differently, I agree, but still only to a certain degree...
and who said that if i make a sensible decision today, I will not regret tomorrow?
I think there are too many sensible people thinking too much about the future in this world and too few dreamers....
and there are so few truly gorgeous and magical moments in life that I am not going to mees them up by thinking about the future as i can only see tomorrow.and I can be dead even by tomorrow so I want to enjoy tody...

btw: what is lillie white?

i want to welcome you to ETJ...

im not attacking you but it makes no sence..

having a baby changes EVERY ASPECT of your ENTIRE LIFE..

as for the rest of your commets, unless u r 16, i cant image thinking this way

...check them in 5 years and see if you feel the same!

BettyCzech · #19 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Rasta

LOLOLOL...i could be a PI...LOL..and its OK if you think im Kennjai (even though, u KNOW it aint so)..LOL--

i want to welcome you to ETJ...

im not attacking you but it makes no sence..

having a baby changes EVERY ASPECT of your ENTIRE LIFE..

as for the rest of your commets, unless u r 16, i cant image thinking this way

...check them in 5 years and see if you feel the same!

oh, ok, I am not lillie white..was just asking if it was not a term you use as I am not english mother tongue....

well, i have a three years old daughter and believe me, it has changed me, I now even sometimes remeber to do the shopping

))
I am thirty and I am not regarded as being very responsible, it is true. But I also think that you should do some decent planning concernig facts like a stabile income, this comes without saying.
But as to love? or affection? or whatever it might be? noooooooo, noooooo,noooo. I think the only beautiful and fully free moments should be those attached to love, without any planning what so ever. Another thing is that a lot of JA men are as you described above, I just came back from JA and noticed that, too. But I think the girl has already fallen for the boy, and when you fall for somebody, there is no way out,that is why I was saying that she should just enjoy it, drag the best out of it because when she hits the floor again, the only thing that will keep her up, is the beautiful memories.....

BettyCzech · #20 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:28 PM

and I didnt feel attacked at all, I love exchanging opinions and outlooks on the world and this site amzes me a lot....you see how basic stereotyping about people and nations does not work....JA responsible people and a nothern European woman with no responsability for the future at all....doesnt the stereotype say it should be the other way round

windypace · #21 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:33 PM

Oh I think I agree about the Love thing... I love most people... but that doesn't mean I want to have a relationship with them...

BettyCzech · #22 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by windypace

Oh I think I agree about the Love thing... I love most people... but that doesn't mean I want to have a relationship with them...

but what would create a major harm, not even trying or trying and then get hurt?

sking · #23 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

there is a proverb here in my country: If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans....

Interesting, now I know a little something about the Czech Republic.

windypace · #24 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 03:42 PM

No... there are just certain requirements I need in a potential mate... and most of those take time to find out if people have them or not.

A long time.

bountyx · #25 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Rasta

LOLOLOL...i could be a PI...LOL..and its OK if you think im Kennjai (even though, u KNOW it aint so)..LOL--

Naw, your P.I. game is weak kenny. Needs more practice.

Lady Rasta · #26 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:11 PM

LOL!!!

den that goes same way! seems ur PI skills even weaker den mine!--at least some members here can attest to meetting kennjai and myself at the same time..

i would evpect more from U Bountyx, where dem skills at?

Lady Rasta · #27 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by BettyCzech

and I didnt feel attacked at all, I love exchanging opinions and outlooks on the world and this site amzes me a lot....you see how basic stereotyping about people and nations does not work....JA responsible people and a nothern European woman with no responsability for the future at all....doesnt the stereotype say it should be the other way round

????

who is sterotyping you?

and why would such be the other way around ("JA responsible people and a nothern European woman with no responsability") . i cant say i understand what you are trying to relay

windypace · #28 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:27 PM

might be a language barrier...

Lady Rasta · #29 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:28 PM

im thinking u might be right windy

windypace · #30 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 04:43 PM

maybe she'll clarify... I was just going on what I thought she might mean...