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Old 08-26-2008, 01:43 PM
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I didn't say in the post that I did not send anything for the child. I make sure she has what she needs.

I was talking about the mother. I am not insecure or jealous. I encourage my partner to be involved in the child's life - I have no problem with that.

I was referring to the mother who on the day I got married tried to ruin it (although she was very sorry for her actions after)- so my memories of the day are not as good as they should be. I am trying to get over it - but it is not easy.
JB1965,

The tone of this post seems more genuine than the first and so I shall put all sarcasm aside...

I can understand how much of an impact a potentially bad wedding day can have on a woman. I know that each time you view your wedding pictures or video, some remnants of this woman's futile actions will linger.

Still, though it was a very special day in your life, you can not allow it to get under your skin. Stop trying to get "over" it. Embrace it and dissolve it.
Sure, the dark clouds of a scorned woman produced an overcast and attempted to rain on your parade, but i am sure you have had many a sunny, bright and cheerful day in your marriage since then.

What is one gloomy day compared to the rest of your wonderful (married) life?
You are his bride and his First Lady. Live up to that position by exhibiting the grace and charm that comes with the package.
Be the Queen, Love your King and honor his Princess.
Ignore the rest.
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I have had to deal with similar JB TWICE and I found out that AH NUH MI, SUPPOSE FI DEAL WID IT, ah di man suppose fi man up himself an angle im bizniz
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Old 08-26-2008, 07:23 PM
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I agree the man should handle the baby mother....for me i just stay calm and let him handle her. I f freak out then I am in the same catagory as her crazy self...so I just let her do her thing he gets mad at her not me, because i am not participating and she goes away because its no fun for her if we don't all get upset.
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I NEVER stay calm at anything......which is probably why I live a looooong single life LOLOL. I lead with emotion 100%, rational thinking 0%.
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