The Kiss & Make up Thread

[GhettoGurl]

Okay after the "storms".. after the fights and the arguements, lets come in here and kiss and make up pls!!!!

[MiSuCumBack]

I have despicable poem for you all:

Let’s run into the sunset
Take my hand and let
Us sing and dance on
In a high harmonious way ‘til dawn
Put those ugly words behind
Everything will be fine
It’s unavoidable sometimes, I know
Get ova it and let’s go
Prance like idiots in a meadow
And then play with a shadow
That looks like a tree
Reading from a fortune cookieee
I love you all
Now let’s fall
Into a great mood
And on Thanksgiving eat lots of food

[GhettoGurl]

I had beef with Babyloc once, and I think thats resolved... I do think apoligized for the misunderstanding..

When Alex and I had beef we both apoligized, sadly Alex has not returned as yet...

Anyways I just wanna say that we ARE a family.. sum people may just wanna spend there time on here.. to kill the dreadfull day.. but you are ALL a part of ETJ and we ALL make ETJ what it daily is. Families argue all the time, why cant we on here.... I know that I have gotten really upset before over arguements but now I realise that if I even argue with the people I live with and after make up.. why cant we on here... I know we all got mutual love for ETJ ...

[Urban_DK]

WTF?????? WHO HACKED INTO GG'S ACCOUNT AND IS POSTING SERIOUS STUFF!!???!!?!?!?!?!!

Ima have ducani look into this one. Boy GG is gonna be pissed when she gets back!!!!

[GhettoGurl]

Shut up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[windypace]

I don't apologize for beef with people... because I am NOT sorry... I meant what I said...

However, after I have said my piece and made my point... I am done... I go on with life...

AND... just because I have beef with someone does not mean they are my enemy... or that I will never agree with what they have to say or not actually like them...

When babyloc and misgoodas first joined I couldn't stand either one of them because I felt that they came on and immediately began attacking people... so I responded in kind...

However, of late... both of those ladies have made posts that were much more REAL and interesting than anything anyone else seems to want to post.

I have come to have a healthy respect in both of them as members of ETJ.

Did I ever apologize for my original thoughts of them? NO I did not... and won't... however, i do NOW appreciate their additions to the board.

[GhettoGurl]

Well I do apologize if I hurt somebody's feelings with my actions or words... I may have meant it, but NON of my words are EVER meant to hurt peoples feelings

[MiSuCumBack]

My teacher once said that it's not what the other person says, it's how it's taken.
If I say "I hate GG" she can say "I hate you back" and start an arguement or say "that's fine" and move on.

[Urban_DK]

I agree with GG... as grown-ups it is sometimes the right thing to apologize, because we don't always know how deep our words cut. When you apologize, it doesn't a sign of weakness, and you're not invalidating what you thought previously, but you are acknowledging the fact that you may have been inconsiderate of someone else's feelings. The would would be a better place if we all could think about the other person a bit more and ourselves a bit less.

[kennjai]

Originally Posted by GhettoGurl

I had beef with Babyloc once, and I think thats resolved... I do think apoligized for the misunderstanding..

When Alex and I had beef we both apoligized, sadly Alex has not returned as yet...

Anyways I just wanna say that we ARE a family.. sum people may just wanna spend there time on here.. to kill the dreadfull day.. but you are ALL a part of ETJ and we ALL make ETJ what it daily is. Families argue all the time, why cant we on here.... I know that I have gotten really upset before over arguements but now I realise that if I even argue with the people I live with and after make up.. why cant we on here... I know we all got mutual love for ETJ ...

So true GG, I totally agree, I fightwith my sisters all the time, and the next we chillin like nothing has happened, sometimes i think lil spats are healthy in a relationship

[windypace]

Originally Posted by GhettoGurl

Well I do apologize if I hurt somebody's feelings with my actions or words... I may have meant it, but NON of my words are EVER meant to hurt peoples feelings

Maybe that is it... my 'feelings' don't get hurt...

I expect others to be like me.

[LadyH]

Originally Posted by windypace

Maybe that is it... my 'feelings' don't get hurt...

I expect others to be like me.

BS..... C'mon now.... If this was so.... anger would not play a roll with you at all...... (projecting here as well).

As one only get upset when "our feelings" come into play. If one does not care and/or was not directly affected by what someone has said or done..... there would be no need for a reaction.... as one would "feel" nothing.

It is not so much the message that hurts Windy...... its the manner in which same is delivered baby gurl.

Just my two cents...

[MiSuCumBack]

Originally Posted by LadyH

BS..... C'mon now.... If this was so.... anger would not play a roll with you at all...... (projecting here as well).

As one only get upset when "our feelings" come into play. If one does not care and/or was not directly affected by what someone has said or done..... there would be no need for a reaction.... as one would "feel" nothing.

It is not so much the message that hurts Windy...... its the manner in which same is delivered baby gurl.

Just my two cents...

That's what I said

Originally Posted by MiSuCumBack

My teacher once said that it's not what the other person says, it's how it's taken.
If I say "I hate GG" she can say "I hate you back" and start an arguement or say "that's fine" and move on.

[windypace]

Originally Posted by LadyH

BS..... C'mon now.... If this was so.... anger would not play a roll with you at all...... (projecting here as well).

As one only get upset when "our feelings" come into play. If one does not care and/or was not directly affected by what someone has said or done..... there would be no need for a reaction.... as one would "feel" nothing.

It is not so much the message that hurts Windy...... its the manner in which same is delivered baby gurl.

Just my two cents...

I rarely get angry when something is directed at me...

I get angry at things I can not control... that is my issue.

[GhettoGurl]

Are we kissing yet?????