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Old 08-03-2006, 03:40 PM
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Quit it, Lillith. You are beautiful. Any guy that doesn't see that is not worth your time anyhow.


true. i know i am a great person (no i am not tooting my own horn...just stating it as it is) but around here its true. white men just don't give me the time of day. and its ok....really...that is what has shaped my preferences. i will date white guys, asian, black or whatever....but black men catch my eye more often that not. its just because of past experiences....


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Old 08-04-2006, 01:34 AM
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Exactly what I'm saying. Let's stop with this "color-blind" crap. Let's face it...I'm black and I don't llike all black people...I don't like all Jamaican's. I don't like all ...anything.

I like who I like. I can't help who you like...I can't change who you like..and in many cases YOU can't even change who you like. Recognize when it's a problem and try to deal with why it's the way it is.

I don't like women with skinny asses...Sorry...I have tried...It ain't changing. So I know ...It's a prejudice...I deal with it!

Now if I start to treat you poorly cause you have a flat ass...Then I have turned it into a problem...that's when I need to realize that my prejudice is taking control over my actions.

Let's all say it together...I am prejudiced...but I don't allow my prejudice to control my actions!
Ditto... I don't like men with flat asses either... I have tried... there just ain't nuthin to hold on to... but I don't treat them nasty...

I don't treat anyone nasty unless they show nastiness first... then I go off the deep end...

And that is something I need to work on... not letting other people get my dander up...

V&T... I love ya man... I have read what you've written up to this point and as usual... you are fabulous.
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true. i know i am a great person (no i am not tooting my own horn...just stating it as it is) but around here its true. white men just don't give me the time of day. and its ok....really...that is what has shaped my preferences. i will date white guys, asian, black or whatever....but black men catch my eye more often that not. its just because of past experiences....

Ditto Lillith... I am not as big as I once was but I will always be more the "playboy bunny" type than the "run way model" type in my body build...

Voluptuous.... *dangerous curves*

And most white men I have met want skinny minnies... *sigh* oh well... that is their loss...

Beautiful Voluptuous Women Salute... Love you girls...
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No I don't think so for me I see sexy white guys out there and some other races however I just desire my Black sexy men ... I look at the orher race and do recognize and give then credit when it's due but I just love my BLACK KING thats my preference
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Preference is an inclination toward something or someone, qualities, etc

Prejudice is a judgement about someone or something, usually negative, that is based on generalizations or preconceived ideas

They are not really the same or even similar to me... Everyone has preferences and everyone has prejudices but they mean different things. Someone's prejudice beliefs may cause them to act out a preference... IE...choosing a "white woman because all white women have big tits"... I don't even remember who wrote that...but that is PREJUDICE because unless and until he has met every white woman on the planet and realized that all white women DON'T have big tits, he is basing that preference on a prejudice. The end.
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OMG!!! This is almost the same speech I gave my GF lastnight...she was saying that I was prejudice cause I tend to prefer black men..... when right after I gave her this speech a cute white guy came over and asked me to dance.....I danced for one song with him and he could not dance in time with the music...and while he was groping my (small) ass...he wass trying to force me to dance out of sync with the music...I went back to hang with my friend and told her he wasn't for me....she just gave me an evil look and said see..........but I am sooo with you on your statement Lillith....its like we are living the same experiences....glad to know someone understands.
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Ditto Lillith... I am not as big as I once was but I will always be more the "playboy bunny" type than the "run way model" type in my body build...

Voluptuous.... *dangerous curves*

And most white men I have met want skinny minnies... *sigh* oh well... that is their loss...
isn't setlling for what likes you, not what you like, kinda shallow
that is like saying guys just take advantage of me so i'll turn gay 'cause women traet me good

dat no mek since
Beautiful Voluptuous Women Salute... Love you girls...

Sorry yall but I haven't read all of this thread, so please excuse me on what i have missed and what has transpired. I think you like wat you like and thats it.

but what i dont like is ppl who like a particular type as it is a fad or for certain gratification
ie. sometimes i hear women (usually blk) seh dem want a white man cause he will give her pretty babies

or

a black guy deh wit a spanish gyrl 'cause she freaky
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isn't setlling for what likes you, not what you like, kinda shallow
that is like saying guys just take advantage of me so i'll turn gay 'cause women traet me good
ok this was months ago but I will attempt to answer...

It was a statement made from my opinion of my experiences...

AND... no it is not the only reason...

but I am sure there is no way for me to explain it to your satisfaction so I will leave it alone.
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