Are you a Giver or Taker Test (20 questions) - Jamaica Talk

Rewind-selector · #1 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 12:17 PM

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Rewind-selector · #2 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 12:38 PM

Giver/taker score 59

According to your score, you seem to have struck a perfect balance between give and take. You do not give incessantly, nor do you make unwarranted demands of your partner – you’re a sharer. With this style, things are much more likely to flow smoothly in your relationship; you give when you feel you have something to offer, and take when your partner is willing to offer you something of value. You seem to be comfortable with this arrangement, and are able recognize your own needs and desires as well as those of your partner. In addition, if your partner is also a sharer, your relationship is likely to be a healthy one, at least from this point of view.

It should be noted however, that if you have a tendency of giving when you don't mean it, this could become a problem. Bestowing a gift or favor on your loved one only to subtly make him/her feel guilty for taking it is a behavior that can quickly eat away at the strongest of relationships. Remember that the act of giving is only fulfilling if you actually mean it.

JASpice · #3 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 01:53 PM

Score=76

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.

Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.

Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

H.S. · #4 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 01:58 PM

Giver/taker score

71

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.
Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.
Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

msincognito · #5 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 06:00 PM

Giver/taker score

61

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.
Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.
Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner

kc4u · #6 (**permalink**) 06-06-2007, 06:49 PM

I am a 64.

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.

Jelakins · #7 (**permalink**) 06-07-2007, 10:26 AM

Giver/taker score

64

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.
Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.
Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

paradiseplease8 · #8 (**permalink**) 06-26-2007, 09:11 AM

Giver/taker score

65

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.
Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.
Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

windypace · #9 (**permalink**) 06-26-2007, 05:36 PM

Giver/taker score

79

According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated.
Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return.
Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

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