Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
My goodness, my goodness.....P-bird it really is sad to hear what you have gone through and even more too see how many person have similar incidences. Ladies I do believe that yes there are some really wicked good for nothin men out there and for the life of me I cannot understand how they do things like dat. I could NEVER EVER see myself doing anything like dat NEVER!!
Man like dem muss suffer!! ETJ has some wonderfulf persons here and I welcome you to the family ok...when u have no one right beside you to talk we are just a click away or a phone call (I suggest you exchange numbers with some of these lovely ladies here)
As a man I am disgusted by my species getting themsleves into such bad states of mind....really!!! It may come as a shock but I have had the privilage to have spoken to a few women who have gone through stuff like this and one thing is certain. The more you talk the faster you will get out of it ok. Keep communicating with the social workers, girlfriends, we here on ETJ and you will realise that YOU CAN MAKE IT - YOU CAN GET OUT. might seem like it will take long but just know that you will be out of it.
You have good working plans and I like that. keep working on them, dont ever stop, and you and your children will have a breathe of fresh air soon.
YOUR NEWEST FRIEND
LUCKYD.
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Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
hello lucky d and thank you so much for your encouraging word. this especially helps because you are a jamacian man to hear your perspective. it helps me to know that not all men are the same.and that not all jamacian are violent to them women. well i think it is nice that you and diamond girl are together. i suppose their hope yet but trust me the **** i have been through i cant see myself in a relationship again just going to look after my two girls. oh yeah big thanks again. god bless you
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Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
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Originally Posted by bountyx
Due to the fact that there seem to be so many foreigners who have questions, or issues with some Jamaican they know or are involved with, and who think that there's something about those persons being Jamaican that makes them that way, I'm putting up this Public Service Announcement to help y'all out.
1. No, all Jamaicans don't act like the person you're involved with. Jamaican people have different personalities and are individuals - just like people that live wherever it is you came from.
2. Not all Jamaicans take advantage of people. Some do, just as some people in the USA or Canada, or England, or France take advantage of people.
3. If you are gullible, you will find someone to take advantage of your gullibility. Learn to think and act smart with your life and relationships.
4. Yes, if you feel that your Jamaican "friend" is using you, and not treating you with respect, then for crying out loud, stap deal wid dem nuh? Weh yuh a hem an' haw 'bout eeeh? Yuh clearly know weh a gwaan. So unless yuh waan fi get played, step outa di situation nuh? Gorsh!
5. Yes, come to Jamaica, make friends, have a good time, but please, get to know people before you get deeply mixed up with them. It's just common sense.
Tanks.
You know this is why I love you
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LMAO, one thing though, there's nothing common about sense LOL that's why you had to make this thread in the first place LOL
Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
i dont understand tour message are you saying that i have no common sense or are laughing at me cause i dont have sense if you are not then i apologize. but it seems that you don understand .
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You have plenty of common sense. You have made smart hard, yet smart choices in a very sad and dangerous situation. The person above is pointing out what someone else wisely said.
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Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
Okay. Still need the LORC, though. Thanks for asking.
Anytime on the explanation. I know what it's like to be new and not completely understand what is going on.
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Re: **Having problems with/doubts/concerns about/questions about a Jamaican? Read Here!**
Couldn't have said it better myself, Wrathe.
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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip