Never even seen this post... Nope Nope and Nope... I dont see this happening either.

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No need for a disclaimer, LS. You were understood and taken just as you explained.

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Miss you soooooooooo much Mr X Co-signed infinity and beyond !!!

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I agree with everything you've said here JG. I met my bf while vacationing in Jamaica and I was very worried at first, mostly because other people were telling me that "all Jamaican guys this..." or "all Jamaican guys that..."

In the year that we've been together I've not found any hint that he's "just after my money" or "trying to get his visa" or any of the other crazy things people say.

It's easy to believe the hype. But I just found that taking it slow lets you get to know each other better and that allows you to trust the relationship more and more every day. Be smart, be aware, ask questions, address issues immediately and don't let suspicius behavior slide. But then be open - cause it's possible that he just may be a good guy...

Sometimes it takes getting played before you wake up and see things for how they are - but believe me, you don't have to go to Jamaica to be taken advantage of - I've seen plenty of Americans do the same thing.

*walks in*
*surveys thread*

Yeah... ahm... so... Why Jamaican men so in truth?

*Runs away laughing*

eh?

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I was wondering wth that mean too, BBT.

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[quote=LadySizzla;459989]
a small amount of american dollars or british pounds from a few overseas loved ones can go a long way here and is often their main source of income.

I have to disagree with that. Its bloody expensive in Jamaica and my dollars didn't go far at all!

every time I see this thread I think of The crazy Jamaican substitute teacher in my school....she is really nice but she lets the kids get away with bloody murder....she is pretty much the only Jamaican I know that I have doubts, trouble and concerns with....lololol

Mi like dis thread too..mi use common sense inna everting me do n decisions dat me mek too! Mi like fi find out tings pon me own especially about ppl..bcos ppl,places n tings change aw d time yusime!!

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"Could You Be Loved..Dont Let em Fool Ya..
or even Try to School Ya..Oh No..
Dont Let em Change Ya or even Rearrange Ya.."
BobMarley

I have thought about this for a long time, and here's my little advice to women who fall in love on holiday: So he says he loves you, and you have your doubts as to whether that's true. You know your strengths, weaknesses, positives and negatives. You know why you're worth loving. Simply ask him why he loves you. "What do you love about me?" Then listen very carefully to the answers. If the reasons are insightful, true, thought-out and actually ABOUT YOU as a person......well, maybe you're on to something. If the answers are cliches, canned, quotes from movies, or worse...he has no answer at all, such as "I just do", well then there may be cause for concern. Lets face it, when you love someone, you spend a lot of time thinking about them. You daydream about them, you obsess about them, their qualities as a person go round and round in your head. If he really loves you, he's going to have been thinking ALL ABOUT you. He's going to have some good answers, ones indicative of the fact that he THINKS ABOUT YOU all the time.
I have to admit, my husband said "I love you" a bit too fast for my comfort level. Very early in the realtionship. I followed my own advice and asked him what it was about me that he loved. His answers were pretty crappy. We took it slow, slow, slow........and eventually we did fall in love. When I ask him the same question now, his answers warm my soul. He seems to know me better than I know myself. His answers are sweet, deep, and thoughtful. Not practiced or shallow or phony lyrics to a song.
I have no doubts that you can fall in love on vacation (I met my first husband at Oktoberfest!!). Just don't stick you head in the sand and pretend everything is wonderful if there are red flags. And if he says he loves you......ASK HIM WHY!!

My husband is horrible at sweet talk, NYC. If I went by that, I would've run for the hills.

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Of facing rainy days
And somehow we survive

I love this advice I am not sure if would always out a phoney because any good conman would be able to come up with some real personal things to say...but I just think its good advice for a relationship...I always tell D why I love him and he me...its so much more meaningful that way.

Not sweet talk really, just true talk. Actually, the opposite of sweet talk. I think of sweet talk as frilly gooey stuff. I realize I did say "sweet". I didn't mean sweet-talk, if that makes any sense. When I say that his words warm my soul, I think I gave the wrong impression. The reasons he loves me are pretty practical, he can list them matter-of-factly, without being gooey or romantic. It just goes to show that he has taken the time to KNOW me. That's what I mean when I give that advice. If the man who claims to love you doesn't actually seem to know you, its probably not LOVE yet. Can be affection, infatuation, lust, ambition or greed. But its probably not LOVE.

laffng right with you......gues everybody dont get the joke!

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