Falling in and out love can make you dizzy. It's a sign that you are addcited to some crazeeee love. Maybe it really isn't love. Some people just like the idea of being in love. If you're FALLING in and out of love, stop and check yourself. If you're falling ... is that love? If love isn't lifting you up, it ain't love! If love doesn't come home, it ain't love!
If love doesn't return your calls, it ain't love! If your life is on hold and you can't eat, sleep, work, study, pray, it ain't love! If love ain't loving you in return, stop in the name of love and love yourself before you give your heart,soul, body, money, time and peace of mind away again.

When dating, make sure you're both looking for the same thing. Sometimes people are not seeking their soulmate or a helpmate ... just a playmate.

That great girlfriend or boyfriend may not be the best choice for you as a husband or wife. Your expectations may be different. Don't be in denial or too desperate. Take your time and ask the right questions.

"Is this relationship about love or lust?"

"Is this relationship full of drama and deceit?"

"Does this person want the same things in life that I value?"

"Am I on the rebound trying to forget my last relationship?"

"Am I chasing or am I choosing?"

"Am I so afraid of being alone that I put up with less, mess and stress?"

"Is he/she here only for the good times and runs with the going gets tough?"

"The thrill is gone, but neither one of us wants to be the first to say goodbye."

"Am I experiencing 'Deja-fool,"repeating the same issues, same script, different cast!?"

Good points to ponder sweetness. Sometimes we're so head over heels in lust that we think its something more. There's nothing wrong with playin around either but just know there's a difference between the two. If you feel its time to stop playing then you ask your self those questions.

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I always place myself way ahead of the dating/relationship game. In my whole heap a years of dating and being with men, they have nothing but tricks up their sleves, so I always go in with my eyes open and my heart making one beat at a time. When is not one problem is the other. I have "been inlove" many a times and realized thats the wrong channel, when two people love each other thats where a good relationship is at. I always try not to fall in love (head over heels, as thats the type thats more like lust or more than liking). Loving each other is the take, not not falling in love, when yuh fall you can get hurt..

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Good advice. I look before I leap.

I think sometimes some people tend to think that it easier to find someone with potential and mold them into whatever they think that person should be. But far too many times these same people find themselves on the business end of a bad relationship and time wasted. Dating on potential is not the way to go.

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Dem neva Know,But dem Know Now !!

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This is very good advice. It really make you think.

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Oh, bah humbug, JC. You sound like the love Grinch today.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

NO!! Shut up! I'm actually being FINE this week!

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I assume that the 30 day challenge starts sometime after this post?

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Yes Look at the times on the post compared to the time with the thread.

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So that must of been like the last smoke in the pack before you gave up?

I would assume that the users would be able to post your infractions in your thread then?

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Yea that's kinda like what it was

So yes, if people wanna infract me they can do it in that thread. I think the thread will be empty of infractions......

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