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Old 09-10-2005, 07:48 PM
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Question Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

I ask my brother today, who is married, Do All Men Cheat. He said yeah pretty much. He said the man may realy love you and take care of you but its something in men that he cannot resist the other womans at times. He said outta all the men he knows who are married or have a steady girl, he only know 2 that are faithful, and trus me he know a lot of people. He said if i have a man who is a good man and take care of me, don't go lookin for clues because u might find them. and if you leave him for someone else that someone esle is gonna cheat to and may not treat you as good. Do any men on here, or woman, have opinion on this one. And men, if u would b honest how can u tell if a man is a cheater.
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

i only know of 2 as well. me and my cousin. but than again i dont know anyone else in a serious relationship either. oh and one other guy..i dont really know him but if he was cheating on his fiance...id have a heart attack
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i only know of 2 as well. me and my cousin. but than again i dont know anyone else in a serious relationship either. oh and one other guy..i dont really know him but if he was cheating on his fiance...id have a heart attack
you'd have a heart attack if you cheated or your mate
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Old 09-10-2005, 08:05 PM
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you'd have a heart attack if you cheated or your mate
nah...what i meant i have a friend that is engaged to this guy who if he cheated..id be shock to the point that i have a heart attack
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Old 09-11-2005, 01:52 AM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

I think its almost impossible to tell....i witnessed a man cheating on his girl who is a good friend and shes completely oblivious to it..i think its because a lot of men ( not all) are not very emotional creatures or it takes a lot for them to show it.Its weird coz u hear of guys up and leaving marriages for no reason, they just snap and go.Its probably because thei conscious has caught up with them.....
I'm anti cheating only because im pro honesty, surely a man could tell u if he was feeling a particular need...its not hard guys just open your mouth and talk lol....( this is gonna get me in trouble isnt it?!!)
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Old 09-11-2005, 04:12 PM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

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I ask my brother today, who is married, Do All Men Cheat. He said yeah pretty much. He said the man may realy love you and take care of you but its something in men that he cannot resist the other womans at times. He said outta all the men he knows who are married or have a steady girl, he only know 2 that are faithful, and trus me he know a lot of people. He said if i have a man who is a good man and take care of me, don't go lookin for clues because u might find them. and if you leave him for someone else that someone esle is gonna cheat to and may not treat you as good. Do any men on here, or woman, have opinion on this one. And men, if u would b honest how can u tell if a man is a cheater.
Tell your brother for me, Thanks for keepin it REAL! and that I said, the only men who don't cheat! are the ones that are in the graveyard! and that's forreal.....Take if from a man, he's tellin the truth--I have known many married men who cheat. My x-husband cheated on me and it's a million and one ways to tell.....but you don't have to look because what's in the dark will come to the light!
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Old 09-11-2005, 04:32 PM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

Just read the words to this song from the other woman to her lover, who is a married man, and this is the way some of these females really feel:

I'll be the other woman all of you life
Just as long as I'm the only one
other then your wife
Your wife, how would she feel
if she caught us together
the same way I would feel
if I caughter you with another

Home I know comes first
and second to that I'll be
and when your not there with her
I want you right here with me

I'll be the other woman
just as long as I know
I'm the only other woman
You make love too

I'll be the other woman
but I've got to know
I'm the only other woman
You make love too

The neighbor's are whispering
saying you don't care
if you cheat on your wife for me
You'll cheat on me for someone else
I'll be your parttime love
but that's as far as I'll go
but to be your parttime fool
would be stooping a little to low

Now loving a married man
this I really don't mind
but a married casonova
is a little out of my line

I'll be the other woman
just as long as I know
I'm the only other woman
you make love too

Star.....He's guilty as charged and I rest my case!
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Old 09-11-2005, 07:33 PM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

I think the lady protrayed in that song is sick in the head. Who the hell would agree to that willingly? Anyways....different strokes for different folks.
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Old 09-12-2005, 03:01 AM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

I believe it star - sum women are suckers and they settle for second best...its very very sad but so common it scares the crap out of me! plz lord gimme a good one....
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Old 09-12-2005, 06:19 AM
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well the way I look at ti right now... I am the other woman...

Yes I wear the ring and I have the words but she was there before me and he refuses to tell her.... so, where does that leave me......

I'll tell you what it leaves me.... Just yesterday... I finally gave in to this young stud and got the freakin I been needin......

Maybe I am wrong but he dayum sure ain't right and until he gets that way... I can do as I dayum well please.
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I think the lady protrayed in that song is sick in the head. Who the hell would agree to that willingly? Anyways....different strokes for different folks.
JamCan--you would be suprised to learn just how far some of these females will go just to have someone else husband. Females can be sometimes dangerous! and these women are sick in the head, no doubt. The fact still remains, it happens everyday.
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well the way I look at ti right now... I am the other woman...

Yes I wear the ring and I have the words but she was there before me and he refuses to tell her.... so, where does that leave me......

I'll tell you what it leaves me.... Just yesterday... I finally gave in to this young stud and got the freakin I been needin......

Maybe I am wrong but he dayum sure ain't right and until he gets that way... I can do as I dayum well please.
What happened???? sounds like you done fliped a script....I hope you are feeling better today...
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I believe it star - sum women are suckers and they settle for second best...its very very sad but so common it scares the crap out of me! plz lord gimme a good one....
Some men that are married won't even tell the other woman that they are marrried and then the other woman ends up getting pregnant and then you have women who know the man is married and wants to get pregnant anyway.

Did you see the Ray Charles movie? Even blind men cheat and he made a baby with this other woman and when the woman took a drug overdose and died, Ray Charles wife told Ray that she knew about the baby before he even could tell her and so the wife went on to say..We will send some money for the baby and Ray told his wife that he already been sending the baby money.

But one thing about Ray that I loved--He always told those women that he was married and that he was never going to leave his wife for them and he didn't He just loved women and that's a typical trait in alot of men.

Very good movie......
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Old 09-12-2005, 07:24 AM
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Re: Do All Men Cheat and How To Tell

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What happened???? sounds like you done fliped a script....I hope you are feeling better today...
well you know star.... that is exactly what I did... I am tired of waiting on a man to make up his mind....

I am too good of a woman and too interesting of a person to be playing the wait and see game. And if he really is planning on telling her in three years when we leave here then he is using her and I am not sure I want to be with a man that would use a woman like that because he could do the same thing to me.

And if not then he is planning on rolling out on me after 3 years and I would have to kill him....

So, I have decided to take a lova..... so now I have a new YOUNGER lova... and him.... the best of both worlds... and screw him if he don't like it.

I know.... I am a bad, mean, evil female.
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Old 09-12-2005, 07:26 AM
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Let him be the one that is confused and wondering what the hell is going on for a while.....
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