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§ Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
I just wanted to know something from all people of colour on this site.
Being in a relationship with someone you care about
and finding out that he or she has cheated is hard right???
What I want to know from ya`ll IS ...
Is it harder, or would you be MORE upset IF
a person that you were with cheated on you with
a white person or a person of any other race than your own????
If yes WHY, if NO why???
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Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
Yeah man...oonu DISCUSS like big people...
well....i dont think race would bother me at all.....compared to the fact that HE CHEATED....woman a woman....so it nuh matta if she white, pink, brown...
Im here trying to think about it....if my s/o cheated on me with a white woman...would i be more sore about her being WHITE.....hmm......
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Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
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Originally Posted by LuvJamaicanMen
Yeah man...oonu DISCUSS like big people...
well....i dont think race would bother me at all.....compared to the fact that HE CHEATED....woman a woman....so it nuh matta if she white, pink, brown...
Im here trying to think about it....if my s/o cheated on me with a white woman...would i be more sore about her being WHITE.....hmm......
I dont think so...
I hear you and yes the bigger issue is really that he cheated
not the race of the person he cheated with for sure.
But would it change the way you handled the situation?
Would it change how you see your partner?
Would it affect even MORE SO whether you forgive them or not?
Yu si mi?? Like the other woman isn`t going to be your MAIN focus
but would it affect how you handled the situation?
Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
I'd like to say that race wouldn't matter to me cause a ***** hoe biatch is a ***** hoe biatch ya know?! Black or white the first thing outa my mouth would be you cheated on me with that black/white biatch right there? I've never been in that situation so I honestly don't know what my true reactions or feelings would be behind my statement.
Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
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Originally Posted by Blingee$ha
I hear you and yes the bigger issue is really that he cheated not the race of the person he cheated with for sure.
But would it change the way you handled the situation? Would it change how you see your partner? Would it affect even MORE SO whether you forgive them or not?
Yu si mi?? Like the other woman isn`t going to be your MAIN focus but would it affect how you handled the situation?
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Umm...im still thinking......it wouldn;t cahnge the way i handled the situation...but in regards to me relaying it back to someone....then yeah i probly would bring up the fact that di MOFO cheated on me with a WHITE woman...
It wouldn;t change how i see him....cause all i would be seeing was a cheater...PERIOD.......and smaddy who cheat pon mi, well it depends on how deep our relationship was for me to forgive him...Forgiveness wouldn't be based on the woman;s race, but based on WHY he cheated and the depth of our relationship..
Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
it would,nt matter what colour they could be pink with blue spots they still cheated and they would both be turnin black&blue by the time i finish with them...lol
Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
[thinks to self: I have some valid thoughts on this; this could be an issue for people no matter what race they were. Too bad the thread is exclusionary. I guess I'll shut up and go sit quietly at the front of the bus where you'd rather me be.]
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Re: § Black, brownins, all people of colour .... §
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Originally Posted by urbandksound
[thinks to self: I have some valid thoughts on this; this could be an issue for people no matter what race they were. Too bad the thread is exclusionary. I guess I'll shut up and go sit quietly at the front of the bus where you'd rather me be.]
Someone`s always gotta post something like that.
If you have views, just share them... what`s with the politics?
You already know you`re cool and people will want to
hear what you have to say Sound Bwoy! Schurps! Anyway ...
Ok let me change the question to accomidate everyone
Would it bother you MORE if your mate cheated on someone of a different race????
I'm marrying that Gentleman
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