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Old 03-08-2005, 12:13 PM
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Raising girl to become a good woman.

What consititutes being a "good woman"?
How do you raise a girl to become a good woman today?
What role does a male influence play in the development of a "good woman"?
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Old 03-08-2005, 12:23 PM
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

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What consititutes being a "good woman"?
With respect to what? In LIFE in general or in a realtionship situation, or both??
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Old 03-08-2005, 12:25 PM
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

Hmmm - depends how how they are brought up and what their views on life is. I think that a girl will turn into a woman no matter what happen. But the become a good woman - one should have a good outlook on life. Want to acheive things, being independent, have pride in good thing they do, clean etc etc. Its hard to explain.
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

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With respect to what? In LIFE in general or in a realtionship situation, or both??
I mean generally. Life, relationships, behaviour, accomplishments etc. What is it that women aspire to be and what is it they should be aspiring to be?
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

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What consititutes being a "good woman"?
Bounty, I'm still trying to figure that out. There are so many qualities and characteristics that I have seen in women like my mother and my friend's mothers that I admire and respect and strive to have within myself.


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How do you raise a girl to become a good woman today?
I believe you have to instill in this girl from she is a baby certain values and a sene of self worth. Also a sense of GOD.

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If a female has a good male role model(sometimes even a bad one),she will learn what she will NOT settle for in her relationships
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Hmmm - depends how how they are brought up and what their views on life is. I think that a girl will turn into a woman no matter what happen. But the become a good woman - one should have a good outlook on life. Want to acheive things, being independent, have pride in good thing they do, clean etc etc. Its hard to explain.
I guess it is a pretty broad question, but I ask because as a man, if I ever had a daughter, I'd want to know and understand what I need to do in order to support her growing into the best woman that she could be. I have my own views on what constitutes a "good woman" but that's from a man's perspective. I wanna hear what you ladies think, what is it that is important to you all, and what is it that you think would be helpful in bringing up girls to meet those goals.
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Bounty, I'm still trying to figure that out. There are so many qualities and characteristics that I have seen in women like my mother and my friend's mothers that I admire and respect and strive to have within myself.
I hear ya Hots. I guess we can learn valuable things from the different qualities of the people around us.
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

So why you never say that in your first post??? Now you let me go and write rubbish chrrpsss

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I guess it is a pretty broad question, but I ask because as a man, if I ever had a daughter, I'd want to know and understand what I need to do in order to support her growing into the best woman that she could be. I have my own views on what constitutes a "good woman" but that's from a man's perspective. I wanna hear what you ladies think, what is it that is important to you all, and what is it that you think would be helpful in bringing up girls to meet those goals.
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So why you never say that in your first post??? Now you let me go and write rubbish chrrpsss
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

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What consititutes being a "good woman"?
How do you raise a girl to become a good woman today?
What role does a male influence play in the development of a "good woman"?
What constitutes a good woman? I go by Proverbs 31. I always strive to be like that. I think if I had a girl to raise I would raise her like my mom did with values to live by and the Word of God.
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

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I guess it is a pretty broad question, but I ask because as a man, if I ever had a daughter, I'd want to know and understand what I need to do in order to support her growing into the best woman that she could be. I have my own views on what constitutes a "good woman" but that's from a man's perspective. I wanna hear what you ladies think, what is it that is important to you all, and what is it that you think would be helpful in bringing up girls to meet those goals.
what would help to bring up girls is seeing her dad treating her mother with the utmost respect and unconditional love...this would flow over into her life and her choices of getting a mate...

As a man...him being around around alot helps in many ways....and having him to let her know that he;s there and that she should be comfortable with teling him anything...
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

well when you can be independent in your choices thinking etc: a man plays apart because he his your example of what a man is to be like takes care of you respect you love you strong when you need him to be has a love for you that is unconditional...thats how I was raised I have three boys although they love me they look to Dad on how to be a man.....My two oldest say they want to be just like their dad all the time I teach them how to be sensitive,caring, patient, respectful, gentle DADDY takes it from there
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Re: Raising girl to become a good woman.

bend the treee from it young meanning if u train her rite then u all good
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id bring her up to be self respectful, filling her head with tons of information from when she is a little sponge til the day i die, make sure that she never has to rely on any man for any reason.
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