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Princessblack · #1 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:23 PM

Would you get back with him or her? Especially if one got hurt more during the relationship... but the end was on a so so good term?

if so why you tink so?

HotanSpicy · #2 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Princessblack

Would you get back with him or her? Especially if one got hurt more during the relationship... but the end was on a so so good term?

if so why you tink so?

What type of hurt you're refering to?

JamCan · #3 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:25 PM

Not me cause I always get SLAMMED in a break up. Seems I always take it way worse than the other person. Its to humiliating to wanna go back after that person made you feel at your lowest ever!

Princessblack · #4 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:29 PM

Like you on the other end and just hearing that uno have to split. No cheating was involved or nothing. Didn't break up because of differences. The relationship just seem impossible to work out at that time. So would you still get back with him/her?

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What type of hurt you're refering to?

Princessblack · #5 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:29 PM

Yeah I hear you...but what if it was the fllip side?

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Not me cause I always get SLAMMED in a break up. Seems I always take it way worse than the other person. Its to humiliating to wanna go back after that person made you feel at your lowest ever!

catherine1971 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:30 PM

no i would't go back ,i go forwards anyway if i left someone or he left me it's probably coz he was no good in the first place.

JamCan · #7 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:31 PM

No PB cause there's obviously a reason the relationship didn't work. Why waste the time in trying again?

HotanSpicy · #8 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Princessblack

Like you on the other end and just hearing that uno have to split. No cheating was involved or nothing. Didn't break up because of differences. The relationship just seem impossible to work out at that time. So would you still get back with him/her?

If you couldn't work it out then,what makes you think you'll be able to work it out now?? If that is the case then NO I wouldn't get back with him. You'll be stuck in the same situation and you're going to break up again because of the very same reason.

Princessblack · #9 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:36 PM

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If you couldn't work it out then,what makes you think you'll be able to work it out now?? If that is the case then NO I wouldn't get back with him. You'll be stuck in the same situation and you're going to break up again because of the very same reason.

Hmmm interesting view. Glad I could get some more light on it.

LuvJamaicanMen · #10 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Princessblack

Like you on the other end and just hearing that uno have to split. No cheating was involved or nothing. Didn't break up because of differences. The relationship just seem impossible to work out at that time. So would you still get back with him/her?

yuh haffi go broaden di spectrum pon dat.....

wah yuh mean it seem impossible to work out...there could a million an one reason why it couldn't work out...

could be distance...if that be the case and him reach weh mi deh or mi reach weh him deh...den YES...mi woulda still get back wid him..

could be dat him did separated from him wife....and now dem divorce...in such a case mi wouldn't jump di gun in a hurry..mi woulda haffi watch him flex fuss...

Soh deary...what specific situation yuh deh talk bout...??

Princessblack · #11 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:39 PM

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could be distance...if that be the case and him reach weh mi deh or mi reach weh him deh...den YES...mi woulda still get back wid him..

For this reason.

catherine1971 · #12 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:40 PM

princessblack the best advice i can give you is go have some fun in finding someone new,you'll have more fun it's always exciting meeting someone new.

LuvJamaicanMen · #13 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:40 PM

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For this reason.

den in that case...mi woulda deh back wid him....dat was something neither of us could've helped at the time...and in such a case...mi wouldn't refer to him as my ex..cah ah nuh seh wi did bruk up, like seh one argument happen or something..

Princessblack · #14 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:42 PM

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den in that case...mi woulda deh back wid him....dat was something neither of us could've helped at the time...and in such a case...mi wouldn't refer to him as my ex..cah ah nuh seh wi did bruk up, like seh one argument happen or something..

Yes we did. We decided to split for that reason.

Btw, thanks for all the other advice.

HotanSpicy · #15 (**permalink**) 02-22-2005, 12:44 PM

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den in that case...mi woulda deh back wid him....dat was something neither of us could've helped at the time...and in such a case...mi wouldn't refer to him as my ex..cah ah nuh seh wi did bruk up, like seh one argument happen or something..

Get back with him for what? Has the distance situation changed? If it hasn't I guarantee you that in a month or 2 it's going to be an issue again.

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