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01-25-2005, 11:20 AM
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What relationship changed you the most???
Which relationship that you can think of, has changed your perspective, and personality the most?? It doesn`t have to be in a bad way, it can be in a positive light, but which had the most impact??
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01-25-2005, 11:36 AM
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Great thread, B! There is a guy that I met last summer, although he never believes me when I say it, he changed my life in so many ways. Through him, I was able to truly realize my self worth, which helped me make a life altering decision. Each day he would lift me up and inspire me, and those little gestures changed me in a way he will never know.
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01-25-2005, 11:39 AM
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01-25-2005, 11:50 AM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
One persons presence awaken a side of me that put a block in wanting to love.
She definitley open my ideas and heart. We learned alot and til this day, she still got me learning! She still a part of me, though apart from me! 
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01-25-2005, 11:53 AM
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I have learned alot from the current relationship I am in. During this relationship I have been forced to deal with my past, analyze it and accept it. Though initially I resented my SO for questioning me about my past and for passing judgements, I've realized that had he not pointed out certain characteristics/tendancies/patterns to me, I may not have acknowledged that I did have problems in certain areas. Now I feel much more wiser, stronger and confident within myself and as I said, although I initially resented my SO, I now thank him.
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01-25-2005, 11:54 AM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
BTW ~ Great post Bashment Girl!!!
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Life is not a race, but a journey to be savoured, every step of the way.... "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Ghandi "Hate the sin and not the sinner is a precept which though easy enough to understand is rarely practiced, and that is why the poison of hatred spreads in the world." - Ghandi
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01-25-2005, 12:06 PM
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I think the relationship that changed me the most is the one I have with a good girlfriend of mine that I have known for the past 14 years. She has seen me at my worst and at my best. She has offered unwaivering support through the times I needed it most. I can always count on her honesty when I need to hear it but don't want to hear it. She is a friend in the truest sense.
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01-25-2005, 12:09 PM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
This is a hard one for me...ive only had a few serious relatinoship and they have all effected me in one way..hmm?
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01-25-2005, 02:02 PM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
Big Up buttafli for posting a friendship too beccause those realtionships are just as important.
 Ok for me though it was a relationship with a man. The guy that tore my heart apart ( lol sigh  ) was the one who actually taught me the most about myself, and forced me to change how I approach life in general not only realtionships. He made me realise that if I don`t put me first, no one will and even though it sound common sense .... I had to feel it to REALLY get it! On a positive note, when it was good the same guy made me feel what it really was to love a man unconditionally and that felt good... WHEN it was good! lol I would like that back but now I know what I`m really loooking for! On a FREAKY note that guy showed me THINGS boy.... Portmore bwoy dem ave di wickedest slam fi real lol =) We were compatible, and it was like earth moving wuk everytime... he said so too so jah know!!! lol For real that man is in tune with HIS body and was with mine too! STR8!!
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01-25-2005, 03:19 PM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
I know of one relationship that basically threw all my ideas of what a relationship is "supposed" to be like. My preconceived ideas of how things are supposed to happen just didn't come into play at all. Its confusing to have to throw certain beliefs out the window and learn new ones.
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01-25-2005, 03:50 PM
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=DFOr real though I hear you because I know what I was expecting falling in love to be (for me and the relationship it`s self), and it was that AT FIRST... then........ we`ll leave it there shall we 
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01-25-2005, 11:16 PM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
But no Bashy I'm not saying there was a downside at all! It was WAAY too easy....that's why it seems hard! LOL...understand what I mean? It should be this easy and smooth according to how I've been conditioned.
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01-26-2005, 02:20 PM
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Anyway.. mummies and daddies... I am shocked that no one has posted anything about the effect that their relationship with their child, has had on WHO they`ve become!!! I wanna be a mummy now.... where`s that one Kartel?? lol 
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01-29-2005, 03:28 AM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
Bashy i wouldn't really consider what I have with my son a "relationship". Its more like unconditional love. I can talk til I'm blue in the face about how becoming a mother has changed my life, but my "relationship" with my son has always just been there. It was a gift given to me, it wasn't formed.
I dunno, when Kartel is ready to have babies you'll understand what I mean. When you have a bunch of little Vybez runnin around you'll just smile.
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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
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02-01-2005, 08:26 AM
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Re: What relationship changed you the most???
Being Married changed me the most. It's the biggest test of all. My faith, self- respect, mental state, and patience has been tested. I would have to say he has changed me in ways I never would have known. If I never but myself first in all my youth years I do Now! because noone else will he should me that in a positve and negative way.
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