Are you talking about Obi 1 Canobi from Star wars?

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The rain falls on the rivers and trees and we
live by the golden rule.
But a hard road can bring us all to our knees and we can die by are own point of view. (Mark Geronamo and the sluggers)

I don't know about Star Wars, but he's from a galaxy far far away alright!

In terms of lasting change, I would have to say Motherhood everytime

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My ex. When he was diagnosed with cancer, you learn how to cope with just about anything and put a positive spin on it as you go. You also learn you are much stronger then you think you are.

My current one. Both good and bad ways about me have changed. And some ways such as that GOD awful temper of mine (the one I thought was gone but was really packed away in the back of my soul), has resurfaced, and boy is it worse than before. The things that run through my mind scare me. LOL

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I love you too sista. LOLLOLLOL

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

Positive: My current s/o has opened my eyes to the fact that I am actually carryin baggage from passed relationships. I never thought I would be that type of person...i always thought I let stuff roll off. But it is present in my relationship and causing issues. No one has pointed it out before, now I strive to be a better me.

Negative: I have a female friend who ONLY deals with married men or men with women, the relationship with her has made me not trust ANY women and what they say. I can not stand when I chick talks to my s/o. I am always ready to cut her....

Positive: My relationship with my daughter has changed the rough, tomboy side of me. She is completely opposite and it used to drive me nuts! I mean she was emotional, needed friends, very girly. I couldn't relate. I was raised around all men so I am not extra emotional etc. Well from her I have learned to take a deep breath and realize not every one is like me, not everyone deals with stuff like me Learn to see it how she sees it and act accordingly....i used to be like "so what, you dont need friends"...she was 6

There are two more relationships I'd like to add to this thread...

1) The professional relationship I've had for the last 10 years with a man who has evolved my racial consciousness to the degree that it is now... His name is Glenn Singleton. He is another personal hero of mine.

2) The personal relationship I am in right now is one that has challenged me, comforted me, and satisfied me in ways that no other previous relationship has ever done before... I am learning more about myself than I ever have before...

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my last one which was initially an ldr and but then i lived with him in Ja. just being with someone from a different culture helped me understand myself better and question long held beliefs and habits, individually he was also a person who could see right through me which was at times unnerving but beneficial. he helped me see that i dont have to follow convention and to follow my dreams.

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