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01-21-2005, 07:38 PM
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Dealing wid "Ded Lef"
When a fambily memba dead an' lef tings, how oonu deal wid all a di sqabbling weh bruk out sake a di dead lef? Dem tings deh cause nuff feud. How yuh hangle dem situation dem deh?
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01-21-2005, 09:46 PM
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Re: Dealing wid "Ded Lef"
I've seen those squabbles happen before sadly when I was younger. It happened a little bit when my mom passed away. My sister and I handled it as diplomatically as possible. My mom was the "Big Mama", so my sister took over. When things started to get outta hand, I basically shut them down. "Either cut it out or I'll kick you out forcefully." Violence is not the answer, especially during this time of pain. It's also an emotional time for everyone and it's easy for things to get out of hand. The only thing you can do in lieu of written instructions from the recently deceased, is to do what you think they would've wanted...... IMHO
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01-21-2005, 11:00 PM
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Re: Dealing wid "Ded Lef"
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10-09-2007, 12:12 PM
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Re: Dealing wid "Ded Lef"
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I knew that was for me, so the box is the only thing I took from her, the whole family fought over the rest.... Later I got send a saron that was also for me, looks pretty on me  There were coins in the box from 1875 - 1975 (Wahoo you wud luv dem)
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10-09-2007, 02:48 PM
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Re: Dealing wid "Ded Lef"
I don't know... my family doesn't fight over our dead's things.
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