Yes I sure did. And there were a lot of kitchen knives at my disposal too. Oh well. I've moved on.

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Thank God you used your better judgement!

I haven't revealed too terribly much about my personal life yet. But, being the open person that I am, give me time.

I do love to read what you guys write. You made me feel welcome from the very beginning and I quickly became addicted to this board.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

He was just being considerate, JC, wearing the headphones so's he could crank up the decibels without disturbing you. My "ex" was always complaining that I ignored her, too, or something like that...I wasn't listening.

I don't tell a good portion of my life on here anymore. Once burned, you don't put your hand over the flame again. I try to give advice about living in Ja and maybe a little bit of info here and there. I enjoy knowing about your lives and consider you friends.

I have met several ETJers and have deep feelings for most of them. I have talked on the phone with a few of them and enjoy telling them more about my life. But because my man is a quiet person and wants his privacy, I do not divulge our personal life for the most part.

yup. it made it a lot easier for us to talk about him lol. it's funny that you say i'm the least judgemental person you've known cause i feel the same way about you. you know more about me than my own twin sister! lol

etj only knows what i'm willing to share. it was only recently that i shared the name of my boyfriend and posted a pic of him. the only person who knows my deepest thoughts, tribulations, and future plans on here is jc.

Well I was thinking about this and i have shared a lot, but i have certain things I have never shared. I keep my bfs pic off here and i also don't post a lot of info about him cause he is very private. I also have a "friendship" with another ETJer that I have not made general public knowledge cause we both decided it would just be better that way.I threaten him every now and then that I will out the whole story in its own personal thread!!! LOL If he ever crosses me I might do it! Nah not really he is the kind of best friend I have always needed!

The funny thing for me is that Jomo asks me every day now, "What did you guys discuss today on the Jamaican boards." Even without a computer, he knows as much about you guys as I do.

I love that fact that we discuss such a wide array of topics. Some of them I jump right in on and some just do not interest me. I respect each of your opinions even if they differ from my own. And, truly, this is therapy for me. Sometimes when I am very sad and lonely or just plain down, someone on here always says something crazy that makes me laugh.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

I know JG!!! The other day I had the worst day ever at school...and when i came home and went on ETJ I was laughing my ass off in just a few minutes from that whole thing with Urban and the doll!!!

hmmmm well i know a hold back sumtimes...other times i dont lol i respect u jmiss i wouldnt talk about my personal life either, damn id hate it if my b/f was talkin bout our sex life to ppl all over the world....on the other hand those who do indulge sure make things funny and exciting around here!!!!......we all got such strong personalities..

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Oh great!!!!! LOL....sometimes I'm embarrassed of what I've posted, as far as my failed marriage and stuff. Actually the ONLY reason I put it up on ETJ was because you guys keep talking about ETJ couples and stuff and I just wanted that to stop!

I'm sure it would have leaked out somewhere eventually.

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Sometimes holding things in just makes them worse. You can sit in a room and cry or you can let it all out and get someone else's perspective and maybe that helps you.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

Don't think that for even a minute. Ain't nobody here bout to judge you on your circumstances. Nuthin but support from your ETJ family.

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Okay, maybe i'm just tired, but both those statments seemed to border on compliments--even though they managed to contain the terms: jackass, twerp, and anal lube. {kissteet} Well, love to you both, I think.

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Urban, take the compliments while you can.

And, JC, he is right. No one judges anyone around here.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip