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Old 10-29-2009, 01:14 PM
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If you just say YES, I will....

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OK, many have had promises made to them in jest or jokingly that either were never meant to be kept, or were really sincere, but for whatever reason, were never fulfilled. Some of these promises might have stretched from the fairy-tale romantic to the outlandish and bizarre.

Also, some of us during stress, dire circumstances or a desire to convince another, have been guilty of same.

What are some promises that were made to you by others and never came to fruition?
Did you believe them when they were made?
Which ones did you make to others?
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Old 10-29-2009, 01:35 PM
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Re: If you just say YES, I will....

At the height of my separation from my ex, I promised God that if he made us reunite, I would become a Christian immediately after, and never cheat again.
I lied, and he knew it.
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Re: If you just say YES, I will....

I was once promised "something" by a particular "organization", if I did their dirty work.

They lied and I had to join the line, suffer and struggle like the others to get my own.
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Old 10-29-2009, 01:46 PM
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Re: If you just say YES, I will....

I cannot remember right off da bat now. I have to think about that and come back. Wait hold up my marriage vows to my ex...you know the till death do us part portion....Yeah. I almost caught a charge myself dealing with him.
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Old 10-29-2009, 01:52 PM
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I cannot remember right off da bat now. I have to think about that and come back. Wait hold up my marriage vows to my ex...you know the till death do us part portion....Yeah. I almost caught a charge myself dealing with him.
But did you mean it at the time?
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But did you mean it at the time?
Oh yes I did. My mom saw that I was truly in love with him; yet she saw that he was not there with me...mind you she tell me this after the divorce...LOL!!!
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Old 10-29-2009, 04:30 PM
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Re: If you just say YES, I will....

My father was infamous at making promises that he never kept... Promises mean a lot to me, altho my BF, or ex, is the same way..
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My father was infamous at making promises that he never kept... Promises mean a lot to me, altho my BF, or ex, is the same way..
I hate to hear that.

I think that one of the worst things on the face of this earth is a parent that habitually break promises to their children.
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Awe man, then he would make excuses like, "Well, if you had stayed home instead of spending the night at ur friend's house, then we coulda..." That sh*t used to piss me off so bad, i knew that he was lying but what could i say...and sadly, ass*ole does the same thing
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Awe man, then he would make excuses like, "Well, if you had stayed home instead of spending the night at ur friend's house, then we coulda..." That sh*t used to piss me off so bad, i knew that he was lying but what could i say...and sadly, ass*ole does the same thing
Does that ring true therefore that women (who grew up with their fathers) often choose men with similar characteristics as their dads?
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Does that ring true therefore that women (who grew up with their fathers) often choose men with similar characteristics as their dads?
Well, i know in my case its true, my husband, tho he was nothing like my dad when i first met him, was slowly turning into him ...down to the musky smell when he came home from work...once i found tissues in the bed, I was like, "Oh hell no, i did not marry Sonny! U are getting out of hand now!" lol Now i know why it took him so long to accept my BF, he's just like his ass!
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Does that ring true therefore that women (who grew up with their fathers) often choose men with similar characteristics as their dads?
I have heard this as well. Although I did not grow up with mine..don't even know who he is...heck even my momma not sure...told ya she wild. I believe it has some truth to it. You know daddy's little princess and all. Her protector, her provider, her comforter....aight back to topic
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Well, i know in my case its true, my husband, tho he was nothing like my dad when i first met him, was slowly turning into him ...down to the musky smell when he came home from work...once i found tissues in the bed, I was like, "Oh hell no, i did not marry Sonny! U are getting out of hand now!" lol Now i know why it took him so long to accept my BF, he's just like his ass!
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Now you cause my co-workers to think that I am getting crazy with that loud outburst.
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Re: If you just say YES, I will....

had a lot of sentences start like that and end with different things...

it was usually to get me in bed with them...
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