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Old 10-22-2009, 09:05 PM
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Dating much younger men...

So, what do all of you think about this new cougar movement that is sweeping the nation...

I honestly think it has always happened perhaps just a litle more on the down low...

And why is it so much of a bigger deal for women to date younger men... when men have been dating younger women for centuries...

What do you think about cougars?
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Old 10-22-2009, 09:18 PM
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Re: Dating much younger men...

i think that playing with them is fine, but to actually dilude urself and think that u may be on the same level, in any way, is crazy, let alone to try to form a relationship with them...
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Old 10-22-2009, 09:21 PM
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Re: Dating much younger men...

well that is a given... but Lord they are fun...
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:14 PM
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Re: Dating much younger men...

yeah but some women actually fall in love wit dem and they have long-distance relationships, for years!! I just don't get it man!
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:45 PM
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Re: Dating much younger men...

Well I am a lioness at heart..LOL!!! I have always dated younger men. My ex husband was 6 years younger than me when we got married. I was 26 and he was 20...he left his mother's home to come visit me one evening took his shoes off and never left. seriousley....The younger men have always been attracted to me and I to them the most was 8 years younger. Although, I found some to be young in mind; some were very well rounded for real. They may have been young in age yet they were old souls. Now I am through with the younger men. My friend now is 5 years older so it's cool.
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I mean u were in your 20s i hardly think that qualifies u as a cougar! lol Im talkin about grown women, with kids...i mean love is blind, i guess, but I don't know, there is just something wrong with a 40 somethin yr old woman marrying a 20 somethin yr old man, or even to be in love with him, there is no future there...IMO, sorry! Please, lord knows i love the boys but to fall for one? Na, not me!
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Re: Dating much younger men...

My man is younger but not that much younger.......and i am reeeeeeally immature...so we are perfect together....
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My man is younger but not that much younger.......and i am reeeeeeally immature...so we are perfect together....
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I mean u were in your 20s i hardly think that qualifies u as a cougar! lol Im talkin about grown women, with kids...i mean love is blind, i guess, but I don't know, there is just something wrong with a 40 somethin yr old woman marrying a 20 somethin yr old man, or even to be in love with him, there is no future there...IMO, sorry! Please, lord knows i love the boys but to fall for one? Na, not me!
Yeah you right. LB!!! u gotta study the anatomy of a lioness though she vicious...LOL!!!! she handles her biznesswhy you think she is wit the Lion King!!!!!!
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Yeah you right. LB!!! u gotta study the anatomy of a lioness though she vicious...LOL!!!! she handles her biznesswhy you think she is wit the Lion King!!!!!!
hahahaha!!! Ur right about that! Did u see Madagascar 2? Sorry, u know i got kids! lol The queen lioness kept shuttin the king down, it was so funny!

oooooooh U got the LB, thaas what they call me on da skreets! lolol
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hahahaha!!! Ur right about that! Did u see Madagascar 2? Sorry, u know i got kids! lol The queen lioness kept shuttin the king down, it was so funny!

oooooooh U got the LB, thaas what they call me on da skreets! lolol

I loved Madagascar 1&2 and lion king. Yeah I figured that much (LB) i'm from the streets my self so I know how they roll..I have calmed down a whole lot.....LOL!!!

In termsw of the queen lioness she does the hunting for the prey; she takes care of the cubs; she even break off the Lion king when he need it...That why he is the king..LOl!!! They the lions just sit back and chill why the lioness do all the work...LOL!!!!
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Re: Dating much younger men...

hmmmm... well one of my boys.... I'm 33 and he is 27... that one is not so bad I guess in terms of age... however he is no where near my emotional or mental capacity...

And the youngest... well he is 19... and that is 14 years... so yeah sometimes I feel a little guilty about that one... but he is just so darn cute... and fun to be around... very smart young man... something for long term... nah... he is too young and does not have enough life experience.
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My man is younger but not that much younger.......and i am reeeeeeally immature...so we are perfect together....
LMAO!!!!!!!! Yes you are!!!!!!

I think it's okay if ur dating... sexin' and leavin' it at that.

I don't think a relationship is healthy. I have dated men upto 14 years older than me and they have a LOT of emotional baggage!!! Imagine women that are that much older than the partners. Double the age, double the fun, double the baggage

In the end.. good for fun.. good for sex and thats that Wam Bam Thank you Mam!! Or Sir
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LMAO!!!!!!!! Yes you are!!!!!!

I think it's okay if ur dating... sexin' and leavin' it at that.

I don't think a relationship is healthy. I have dated men upto 14 years older than me and they have a LOT of emotional baggage!!! Imagine women that are that much older than the partners. Double the age, double the fun, double the baggage

In the end.. good for fun.. good for sex and thats that Wam Bam Thank you Mam!! Or Sir
I really do agree with this ... my son's father is 14 years older and it has been the most challenging relationship i encountered.
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