Good men are out there. Most women just filter them out without seriously considering them.
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
Very waggish indeed.
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First off, Ladies...If you have been-there-done-that, why do you think that most of YOUR relationships failed? Have you ever given up totally on ever settling down?
Men...What is/was the most outstanding reason that keeps/kept you from settling down and getting married?
All...Do you believe that there is still an abundance of healthy, intelligent, ambitious, devoted and worthy men still out there ready to settle down, get married and make a deserving woman happy?
In all of my relationships (prior to the one I am in now) - I was too young, or I was making bad choices, and trying to make the bad choices fit.
I had actually decided that I was happy to be single - I had a good job, I had my own place, I had money to travel - life was good. I knew I wanted children, that was the only problem for me. But, I wasn't going to date bad choices anymore - it was going to have to be someone that fit in my life. That's when I met my husband!
I think there are still good men out there - but it is hard to know where to find them.
Good men are out there. Most women just filter them out without seriously consider them.
I agree Bounty...that is why I dont fall for the professional woman cant find a good man; I am a professional woman I just make bad choices...these so called professional women looking for Mr. Right now Perfect and that willl neva happen. We are all striving towards perfection. That is a daily task.
__________________ "A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots".Marcus Garvey
I agree Bounty...that is why I dont fall for the professional woman cant find a good man; I am a professional woman I just make bad choices...these so called professional women looking for Mr. Right now Perfect and that willl neva happen. We are all striving towards perfection. That is a daily task.
Yeah. I've been hearing this "good men are all gone" argument since high school days. Girls would be pouring their hearts out to me about how badly their boyfriends treated them, and how all they want is a good man, and they don't know where to find one ... and I'm sitting there thinking ... DUHHHHHH!!!!!!!
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
Yeah. I've been hearing this "good men are all gone" argument since high school days. Girls would be pouring their hearts out to me about how badly their boyfriends treated them, and how all they want is a good man, and they don't know where to find one ... and I'm sitting there thinking ... DUHHHHHH!!!!!!!
LOL!!! I know that's right!!!!! I have even dated guys who my snobby girlfriends feel that was not good enough for me cuz of their lack of material possesions. I am not about that Bounty I want real; I want substance. That is why they are single and miserable now...then they wanna tell me how to act in my relationship. They my girls and I love them I just dont tell them any thing anymore.
__________________ "A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots".Marcus Garvey
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... and money, and cars, and "Winston", and excitement, etc. etc. etc. etc.
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
... and money, and cars, and "Winston", and excitement, etc. etc. etc. etc.
LOL I had an ex named Winston.....
Yes i know what you mean, nobody is clamoring to get a date with the nice guys....the ones who are marriage minded......
LOL I had an ex named Winston.....
Yes i know what you mean, nobody is clamoring to get a date with the nice guys....the ones who are marriage minded......
Why is that?
All we hear about is how women want love and commitment and loyalty and a lifelong happy relationship, yet so many of them skip past the guys who would give them all that, and go for the guys who end up making them miserable. What sense does that make? Oh ... then they turn around and say that all the good men are either gay, taken, or in prison (if they were good, why would they be in prison?).
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
All we hear about is how women want love and commitment and loyalty and a lifelong happy relationship, yet so many of them skip past the guys who would give them all that, and go for the guys who end up making them miserable. What sense does that make? Oh ... then they turn around and say that all the good men are either gay, taken, or in prison (if they were good, why would they be in prison?).
LOl I was thinking that about the prison thing earlier...and honestly the gay thing too...cause if he is gay thats no good for me....
Its cause they all have the priorities in the wrong order......
Some are convinced they can change those guys..or settle them.....
All the good guys are not taken, but all the good guys who look like Denzel are......lol
Oh no I would not say that Alex, I have in mine yet I worked hard to make it right on my part. In my case the brothas did not want it anylonger cuz I was not happy wit me being the wifey and having another woman on da side. You feel me; I am a control freak and could be very domineering and yet I knew that and worked on it to ensure that I was doing what I was suppose to do to make the relationship successful.
I dont see how that could be view as a screw up your part.
__________________ True loves comes quietly without fanfare or flashing lights. If you hear bells, go get your ears checked.
Oh ... then they turn around and say that all the good men are either gay, taken, or in prison (if they were good, why would they be in prison?).
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LOl I was thinking that about the prison thing earlier...and honestly the gay thing too...cause if he is gay thats no good for me....
lol
I think their definition of "Good" in that respect, is someone who (they think) will love, cherish and take care of them....but MOST importantly...Will not cheat on them.
__________________ True loves comes quietly without fanfare or flashing lights. If you hear bells, go get your ears checked.
Good men are out there. Most women just filter them out without seriously considering them.
This is true! BUT in all honesty..a man had to be more den just "good" to make you happy! He has to be what you want and he has to be someone you are attracted to. I know "GOOD" men, have met quite a few! So when you find one that is "good" u suppsed to jump for joy even if you are not attracted to him? Even if his lifestyle is not in sync with yours?--come on!
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Yeah. I've been hearing this "good men are all gone" argument since high school days. Girls would be pouring their hearts out to me about how badly their boyfriends treated them, and how all they want is a good man, and they don't know where to find one ... and I'm sitting there thinking ... DUHHHHHH!!!!!!!
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