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12-09-2004, 11:22 AM
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It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
 I have being in a relationship with my guy since earlier this year.He is a very loving ,caring,respectful person.When we started dating he was just getting out of a marriage of convenience.The girl started to file divorce papers they went to sign and all.Shortly afterwards she informed him that she found out she was pregnant,he figure she was lying of course she brought proof.This was hard to absorb.We talked about it I decided he y you are filing your divorce this hapened prior to me so I love youand we will make the best of the situation. She is drawing close to her due date and my heart cant take it. She is 13 years older than him, she is high risk ,this is is first child,the thing is he dont want to upset her because he is scared high risk and all it will put the babyat risk wish is true. So now he wants delay finalizing the papres untill after the baby is born , I dont know how to deal with this I want to get out,but i dont
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12-09-2004, 11:28 AM
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Re: It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
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12-09-2004, 12:14 PM
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Re: It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
Like Sun said, you've waited this long already. Since the baby will be here soon, wait till then. Now, if after she has the baby, he still stalls on finalizing the papers, you may have a big problem on your hands........
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12-09-2004, 12:19 PM
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Am I selfish for doing so, he told me I was
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12-09-2004, 12:26 PM
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Re: It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
I wouldn't say selfish right away. I guess that would depend on how you're bringing this up to him. It's gonna be tough for you either way you slice it, but I would say to wait. You seem like you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, so waiting for her to give birth will do just that. I'm not saying to give him an exact deadline, but you'll know if he's unecessarily draggin' things out.......
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12-09-2004, 12:26 PM
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point on bailing out right now, with only three months left to go. But beware... after she has this child. Naturally he will be in the childs life and Mom's too!
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12-09-2004, 12:38 PM
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Re: It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
You said that his marriage was of convenience, For whom is the question that I want to ask you, and do you have the fear of him leaving you to go back to his wife because of the baby.
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12-09-2004, 12:50 PM
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They had a real bad relationship.She is 13 years his senior so it was hard for him since she did most of the dictating.But now she been pregnant she has calmed down and said she is not the same so he should come back.
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12-09-2004, 12:55 PM
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12-09-2004, 01:08 PM
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12-09-2004, 01:29 PM
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12-09-2004, 01:30 PM
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Re: It is hard but do I let go or keep trying..........
Not to be smart! But open your eyes and prepared for the worse! I know what his mouth is saying but, when the baby comes and she is not ready to give up there marriage be prepared.
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