The Dum-truck has arrived, but it missed my head! - Jamaica Talk

Crystal · #1 (**permalink**) 12-07-2004, 08:30 AM

Is it me, or is my spouse trying to make JMW seem as if they would accept anything a man does because they know better or do he think just because I was not born there but half and half/ that I would believe everything he says must be true.

We were having a conversation about his daughter my step-daughter coming for chirstmas, so I asked him .why is it every time she is coming that you never let me speak to he mother, he tells me that she don't what to talk to me (never reason why) she just want to talk to him when it involves their daughter. Now if you are seding your daughter to a place she never been no matter who he is with would'nt you want to meet or talk to her to hear or see what type or women she is!

He say
1. JMW don't ask thier man where they go because they no better
2. Dont' care what time they come in because they know we will be there when we get there.
3. Dont' get into their business/
Respond Ladies/ men

HONEYPYE · #2 (**permalink**) 12-07-2004, 09:55 AM

Hi Crystal it's been a while.

Ok let me add my 25 cents in here, well your stepdaughters mother has a point in a way. She feels she doesn't need to have a relationship or even speak to you, because she feels the childs father is sufficient! In her thinking she is sending the child to be with her FATHER and may feel you have nothing to do with that equation. She is comforted in the thought that the child will be safe with her father and other surroundings(YOU). Yes it would be nice if she spoke to you but maybe she feels YOU are apart of her ex's life she doesn't want anything to do with. I wouldn't make a fuss over it.

As for Jamaican women not asking their man where he is going......well I'm one who does !!! Why don't you get all dolled up one Saturday night and just say..."I'll see you later" see if he doesn't ask you where you are going

We have an understanding in my home if either one of us is going out with friends we try to make it back home at a decent hour, and we also make a few calls home just to assure one another that everything is OK

If you are together in your case married his buisness is your business and vice versa!

SWEETS · #3 (**permalink**) 12-07-2004, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by HONEYPYE

Hi Crystal it's been a while.

Ok let me add my 25 cents in here, well your stepdaughters mother has a point in a way. She feels she doesn't need to have a relationship or even speak to you, because she feels the childs father is sufficient! In her thinking she is sending the child to be with her FATHER and may feel you have nothing to do with that equation. She is comforted in the thought that the child will be safe with her father and other surroundings(YOU). Yes it would be nice if she spoke to you but maybe she feels YOU are apart of her ex's life she doesn't want anything to do with. I wouldn't make a fuss over it.

As for Jamaican women not asking their man where he is going......well I'm one who does !!! Why don't you get all dolled up one Saturday night and just say..."I'll see you later" see if he doesn't ask you where you are going

We have an understanding in my home if either one of us is going out with friends we try to make it back home at a decent hour, and we also make a few calls home just to assure one another that everything is OK

If you are together in your case married his buisness is your business and vice versa!

Well said HP

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