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Old 12-01-2004, 03:40 PM
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Would you be a surrogate mother for a close friend or relative who cannot have children?

Or if you cannot have children, would you get a one?
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

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Would you be a surrogate mother for a close friend or relative who cannot have children?

NO! It's a compassionate thing to do, but my heart couldn't give that baby up. That baby growing inside of me I would want it, I couldn't hand it over after the nine months
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

no, simply because I couldn't see my self giving up a child i carried for nine months and delivered. I also couldn't donate my eggs, any children of mine will be mine!
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

But the thing is...it's not your egg, they fertilised the woman's egg with the man's sperm in a petri dish and insert it inside your womb, would you still keep the baby?..
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

Yes! That's what I said, if it was growning in my body for nine months and I delivered it I would not be able to sign it over. But I was also adding in the possibility of it being my egg to given to someone else.
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

So you would get a surrogate mother if you couldn't have kids?...and what if she decides to keep the child?
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If I couldn't have kids I'd adopt. Because I know how I'd feel if it was me being a surrogate and i wouldn't want to get all excited and attached only to have her change her mind and I not get the child.
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

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Would you be a surrogate mother for a close friend or relative who cannot have children?

Or if you cannot have children, would you get a one?
Yes I would do it for like my cousin that I'm close to or soemthing! I wouldn't ask someone to do it though, I don't want them to feel pressured and I am not paying anyone either... mi nuh promote sellin picni! Anyway mi still need fi breed up before it get late!
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But the thing is...it's not your egg, they fertilised the woman's egg with the man's sperm in a petri dish and insert it inside your womb, would you still keep the baby?..
Well then if that is the case then I would just say no from the get go to avoid me having a nervous break down. I would still want to keep the baby even though biologically it wasn't mine but it grew inside of me depended on ME for life. So I would naturally have some attachment to it.
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But the thing is...it's not your egg, they fertilised the woman's egg with the man's sperm in a petri dish and insert it inside your womb, would you still keep the baby?..
B4 dem do dem ting dem haffi do certain testin... mi nuh waan ketch nutten fram nuhbaddi.... yuh neva know eeh! Test dat good fus!
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Yes I would do it for like my cousin that I'm close to or soemthing! I wouldn't ask someone to do it though, I don't want them to feel pressured and I am not paying anyone either... mi nuh promote sellin picni! Anyway mi still need fi breed up before it get late!
a deh second time yu a shout out deh word and me com.Me a goh breed yu noh worry bout it
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a deh second time yu a shout out deh word and me com.Me a goh breed yu noh worry bout it
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B4 dem do dem ting dem haffi do certain testin... mi nuh waan ketch nutten fram nuhbaddi.... yuh neva know eeh! Test dat good fus!
Umm. of course they would do testing and that sort of thing....
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Re: Surrogate Mother..

and before you even get a surrogate mother, whoever your choice is, i think they sign some kind of document to say that the surrogate would not change her mind to keep the baby, if she dose then that would be a court thing...

So there is alot to think about and go thru when doing these things..


Me I think I would for a close relative or friend, and I wouldn't have a problem giving up the baby either....
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Anyway mi still need fi breed up before it get late!
SPERM BANK....if yuh in such a dire need fi BREED!
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