In this situation, I think maybe I would have gone, but since I don't have any children yet, I honestly don't know how I'd be feeling about the situation. Especially if August long weekend is anything like Thanksgiving here in the states (like Ash said).

That said, I wouldn't "officially" end the friendship. I'd probably send an e-mail or write a letter saying exactly what I felt (something along the lines of, "i've noticed that we haven't spoken since before your wedding, and I'm wondering if it's because you are upset with me") and see if she responds to that.

Usually people are more likely to respond when they know the person thinks they are mad at them (if they aren't mad, they usually want to dispell any further thoughts the person may have of them being upset. if they are mad, this gives them an opportunity to talk about it and tell "their side" of the story).

If she doesn't respond...there's your answer. In that case, I'd just let it go...

I think she is going a bit overboard... but hey... you've tried to contact her and she hasn't gotten back with you... so... brush your shoulders off and move on.

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