Here are a few that ive

learned over the years.

Dos:
Suprise them with something you know they would love but it doesnt have to be

something big cause as they all say, its the little things that count. (every mikkle mek a mukkle)

Compliment them

on when they make a special effort to look nice just for you. Guys women put some serious work into looking beautiful for you

and if after they have spent that time (usually like 2 hours or more) if you dont think its all that then look instead at the

beauty in the person for doing it all for you.

Cook for your woman. Yes you heard me. You dont have to do it all the

time but just as we appreciate them doing it for us they would appreciate us doing it for them. Breakfast in bed is always a

winner and a special dinner prepared while they are out will put a smile on their face when they get home.

When you

are out all night with your friends drinking, partying or whatever it is you do and shes all alone at home. Give her a call

if even if its just for a few seconds just to let her know that youre thinking about her and that you want to know that she

is ok.

Donts:
Never take your woman for granted.

Never ignore your woman when she is talking to you even

if you think she is just nagging. Women have a way of telling you how they are feeling during regular conversation but guys

usually dont even realise this and sometimes by the time they do realise it is too late.

Never Hit Your Woman.

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This is for my fallen soldiers,
We miss you.

Ducani, you are a relationship-smart guy!



Thanks for thinking of us gyals. (Hug)

Thanks Kathryn! How about you post your dos and donts

to and lets make this thread very useful and hopefully help in preventing some unnecessary breakups.

Ducani. (big warm

hug)

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This is for my fallen soldiers,
We miss you.

Rather than post my own

do's and don'ts, here is a piece of
wisdom I came across that picks up where Ducani left off. It's
directed

toward the gals, but the guys will get great benefit from it
too:

Smart Women Know...
If He Doesn't Make

You Feel Good About Yourself,
Then He's Not Good For You.

Talk to any group of women who are happy in their

relationships,
and you will discover a common denominator: They are with men
whose words and behavior encourage

their partners to feel
intelligent, attractive, and generally terrific. Men who like women
convey this by making

their partners feel secure.

A Smart Woman Has The Good Sense To Slow A Relationship
Down Until She Is Sure That

:

• She Is Ready
• Her Dream Man Won't Turn Into Her Worst Nightmare
• The Relationship Is Grounded In
  
  Reality, Not Fantasy
• He Is Sincere
• He Is Stable
• He Is Serious
• He Knows What Love Is
• He Knows
  
  What Commitment Is
• Both Of You Share Similar Values.

And my personal favorite:

If He

Tells You His Wife Tried To Run Him Over,
The Day Will Come When You Will Wish She Had.

Just kidding. Love you

guys. LOL

Hey Ducani your Do's and Don'ts list is incorrect I

say this because there are too many things to Do.

Women love a little surprise here and there. One tip

when getting your wife a gift never buy them a vaccuum cleaner -- they might get the wrong impression.

Cook fi her,

they are just as hungry as us. A lovely meal after a hards days work will even get you some tonight. Guys remember to turn

off your cellphones. Women really appreciate a guy who turns off his world just for her once in a while.

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Looks like KC's got the success formula down cold.

Here's my input.....

Guys - DON'T act like

football is more important than your woman all the time. If you can't even hear me when the game is on....you're in

it too far. If football really is more important than your woman you probably shouldn't have a woman.

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women please never assume that we are putting things

ahead of you. never do that because we can really ignore you, but why the hell do women choose the most inappropriae times to

wanna talk?

If you were out shopping and he wanted to talk I guess he would have to wait till u either reach

home or leave the store. There is a time and place for everything, if u spend the time to notice football is never repeated

on tv so we can't miss a moment and that is just for two hours.

at least we home.

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Actually football is an all day event...at least

where I am. There are enough channels that a man can watch football to his heart's content about 10 hours a day!! College,

NFL, CFL....blah blah blah.
No, this isn't every man but I was recently with one that the house could burn down around

him and he wouldn't notice, as long as the TV was still standing.

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well in that case JC your man needs to compromise

watch a game that is more important to him and then during another that is less important give you a listening ear

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No, I just dumped him! LOL

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oh I do love this!!!

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E§TORMNever underestimate the power of a woman .

women please never assume that we are putting things

ahead of you. never do that because we can really ignore you, but why the hell do women choose the most inappropriae times to

wanna talk?
(insert from KC)


KC, why do men think that we choose the most innapropiaTE
times to talk....our

time is very important...it doesnt take all that!!! cause u kno we love you..

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E§TORMNever underestimate the power of a woman .

i never said it was not important but ironically women always want

to test their men by seeing if he'll choose her or the tv! that is downright wrong.

when its time to watch tv,

respect our position cause there are other times when we do give you undivided attention.

and why if u really have

something to talk about you spend the entire conversation complaining about why we watch so much TV instead of talking to

you?

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Do NOT get caught doing something and then deny that

you did it. I indirectly caught a guy I was dating checking out some naked chicks on MSN chat. He totally tried to deny it

but I had all the damn pictures in my temporary files! If you're gonna lie about it at LEAST know what you're doing enough

to erase the evidence!
And if you're gonna get caught AT LEAST make sure she was good lookin! NASTY ugly girls......

EEEEEEEWWWWWWWW. She didn't even shave her coochie! LOL

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