OK WHAT am I even doing in this thread?????

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Yah... I'm wondering the same thing about myself.....LOL. Lately I've learned to let your guy know how much you appreciate him... OFTEN.

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There are no words in the English language to capture my feelings...

I like that one Miss B I do that every day...

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DO be supportive of each other.

DON'T crowd each other's space.

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Me too...

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There are no words in the English language to capture my feelings...

Isn't your picture listed under the DON'T column?


I'm sorry..........Couldn't resist!

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

Even if they dont let you know how much they appreciate you?

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Should be a give and take sort of thing.

I would never go on and on about how appreciative I am about him if he wasn't reciprocating. I'm not really all that nice if I am feeling unappreciated.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

Well I believe if you appreciate some one you should just let them know...not to get it back in return, just to say it...I wouldn't say it if I wasn't appreciative......some times men are not as communicative as women and its just there way. Doesn't mean they don't appreciate you just cause they don't say it....everyone has to be who they are..I don't place conditions on my compliments....maybe if he doesn't say it he might be showing it through his actions instead.

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That's what I'm talking about Teach. Not necessarily that he doesn't say it; but I have to know he appreciates me by his actions then.

I'm sorry; but I am not busting my butt to take care of things for a man who just keeps piling his exectations and requests on. It's a 50/50 relationship. If it's not, then I'm not into it. I'm not his maid nor his mother.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip

Co-sign 150%. I don't "get" men that still think women have their place.

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Agreed...no reason to be either of those things.

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gotta agree with you here

i duno man, but when i give and dnt get back in any form, i mean thankyous etc bwoy sah da scales dem unbalance


i aint gna give give and get nutun back, dats not my system

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^me!!!!

Men Relationship/Marriage Donts:

-Neglect to TAKE CARE of HOME
-Neglect your wife
-BE GULLIABLE to a point you are in situations you shouldn't be in
-Allow your EGO to block your vision
-Fail to LISTEN
-Play mind games (you will NEVER win those with women)
-Try and take ADVANTAGE
-Fail to compromise
-Fail to be FAIR
-Fail to keep your word so much a person ENTIRELY stops believing in a word you say.
-Allow others control and dictate your marriage/relationships, regardless who it is.

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someone is well and truly POed.....

i like it...

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