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Old 08-18-2004, 01:35 PM
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1. Put toilet seat down
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My favorite words of wisdom are: "never invest more in a relationship than you can afford to lose."
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Originally Posted by Ducani
Here are a few that ive

learned over the years.

Dos:
Suprise them with something you know they would love but it doesnt have to be

something big cause as they all say, its the little things that count. (every mikkle mek a mukkle)

Compliment them

on when they make a special effort to look nice just for you. Guys women put some serious work into looking beautiful for you

and if after they have spent that time (usually like 2 hours or more) if you dont think its all that then look instead at the

beauty in the person for doing it all for you.

Cook for your woman. Yes you heard me. You dont have to do it all the

time but just as we appreciate them doing it for us they would appreciate us doing it for them. Breakfast in bed is always a

winner and a special dinner prepared while they are out will put a smile on their face when they get home.

When you

are out all night with your friends drinking, partying or whatever it is you do and shes all alone at home. Give her a call

if even if its just for a few seconds just to let her know that youre thinking about her and that you want to know that she

is ok.

Donts:
Never take your woman for granted.

Never ignore your woman when she is talking to you even

if you think she is just nagging. Women have a way of telling you how they are feeling during regular conversation but guys

usually dont even realise this and sometimes by the time they do realise it is too late.

Never Hit Your Woman.
Now this list of things Ducani...I love...soo true and it definitely goes both ways!
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Old 12-20-2004, 12:29 AM
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Re: Relationships Dos And Donts

Ducani can you please teach a class? Although the do list is longer than the don't, women are not difficult to please. I have a do and don't list, and please feel free to add.
Ladies:
Do keep yourself looking good for your man no matter how long you've been together and how many children you have. Keep his eyes on you.

Do keep your house and yourself clean. Smell goods are a great way to make him love being next to you.

Do take the time to cook his favorite meal, please know how to cook. He needs to know you are independent and able to care for a family.

Do give him space, he needs the space to come back to you refreshed.

With that, learn to trust your man....if he isn't cheating, you can lead him there with your jealousy.

Do learn to be sleak and sexy, wear clothes that are fitting for your figure. Not everyone is sexy in skin tight clothes!

Do not lie, cheat, or sneak. Do unto others as you want done unto you.

Don't make yourself available 24/7, he needs you to have your own life.

Don't give what you aren't ready to lose, including parts of your heart.

That's all I can think of for now.....
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Re: Relationships Dos And Donts

i have been with my husband a very long time now and we are still very much in love today as we were 12yrs ago.evry day we tell each other we love each other and that is important.all the things a woman wants to hear in a relationship men need to hear as well.should always be 50/50 just be yourself ,don't take each other for granted and never stop talking or listening to each other.remember love grows even when there are really hard times support each other.it takes years to build up a relationship but it can only take seconds to smash it up.not all relationships last for whatever reasons but you know what just have fun while its there. catherine xxxx
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i have been with my husband a very long time now and we are still very much in love today as we were 12yrs ago.evry day we tell each other we love each other and that is important.all the things a woman wants to hear in a relationship men need to hear as well.should always be 50/50 just be yourself ,don't take each other for granted and never stop talking or listening to each other.remember love grows even when there are really hard times support each other.it takes years to build up a relationship but it can only take seconds to smash it up.not all relationships last for whatever reasons but you know what just have fun while its there. catherine xxxx
Catherine that was very well put. I totally agree with you and you really don't get to know this stuff til you find the right person. But once you do its amazing how easy it seems to flow and you really WANT to do and say these things all the time. I don't think there needs to be a special occassion to say I Love You....its those random times you say it that counts. Makes that person feel real special.
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Catherine that was very well put. I totally agree with you and you really don't get to know this stuff til you find the right person. But once you do its amazing how easy it seems to flow and you really WANT to do and say these things all the time. I don't think there needs to be a special occassion to say I Love You....its those random times you say it that counts. Makes that person feel real special.
thanks JAMCAM, i totaly agree
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Damn! What you had to say is awesome, Ducani. You really understand us females. I had to copy and paste this one to my boyfriends. He's an essential doll baby, but of course he's not perfect. I sent your list as friendly reminder.

Thank you.

Don't
Bodda wid di bun ting. It overrated!! Nah bodda weh enny body else tel u!

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Tell your love when they do something you like, in the bedroom and out. You're likely to get an encore.
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Oops, I meant boyfriend singular!! I have no boyfriendS! LOL!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Ducani
Here are a few that ive

learned over the years.

Dos:
Suprise them with something you know they would love but it doesnt have to be

something big cause as they all say, its the little things that count. (every mikkle mek a mukkle)

Compliment them

on when they make a special effort to look nice just for you. Guys women put some serious work into looking beautiful for you

and if after they have spent that time (usually like 2 hours or more) if you dont think its all that then look instead at the

beauty in the person for doing it all for you.

Cook for your woman. Yes you heard me. You dont have to do it all the

time but just as we appreciate them doing it for us they would appreciate us doing it for them. Breakfast in bed is always a

winner and a special dinner prepared while they are out will put a smile on their face when they get home.

When you

are out all night with your friends drinking, partying or whatever it is you do and shes all alone at home. Give her a call

if even if its just for a few seconds just to let her know that youre thinking about her and that you want to know that she

is ok.

Donts:
Never take your woman for granted.

Never ignore your woman when she is talking to you even

if you think she is just nagging. Women have a way of telling you how they are feeling during regular conversation but guys

usually dont even realise this and sometimes by the time they do realise it is too late.

Never Hit Your Woman.

TEACH THEM YES, I APPLAUD YOU.
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Re: Relationships Dos And Donts

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Damn! What you had to say is awesome, Ducani. You really understand us females. I had to copy and paste this one to my boyfriends. He's an essential doll baby, but of course he's not perfect. I sent your list as friendly reminder.

Thank you.

Don't
Bodda wid di bun ting. It overrated!! Nah bodda weh enny body else tel u!

Do
Tell your love when they do something you like, in the bedroom and out. You're likely to get an encore.
Nice...............
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DON'T have lack of communication. This one is easy to learn.....right after you break up from it.
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Do tell them that you are proud of them

Don't be quick to walk away when they need you most!
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Don't humiliate your S/O in public.....in doing so you are just humiliating yourself too because you're with them!
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