Things She Doesn't Want To Hear In Bed If you absolutely must say something, keep it in the "Wow, you're beautiful" or "I've never felt so good in my life" range.
Women thrive on those kinds of compliments, even if you don't entirely mean them. On the other hand, whatever you do, under no
circumstances should you mutter the following things.
# "You have not shaven your legs in months?"
# "Wow! You remind me exactly of my mother when you do that."
# "Let's turn off the lights so I don't have to look at your jiggly, fat ass."
# "It smells like hot garbage in here!"
# "That feels okay, but my last girlfiend used to do it like this. Watch, I'll show you..."
# "The guys are all over at Hard Rock Cafe watching the game, gambling and drinking. I wonder what the score is?"
# "Too much tequila -- I think I'm gonna puke."
# "By the way, I'm a raging homosexual."
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nah nah nah!! i didnt say women shouldn't impress men...i said they should not go out of their way to impress them...meaning that if the try too hard then men wouldnt find them attractive
p.s BLACK WOMEN!! PLEASE!! DO NOT PUT ON RED LIPSTICK!!! YOU KNOW WHAT UNNU LOOK LIKE WHEN UNNU DO DAT??? MI NAT EVEN A GO DESSO.
not to be rude or anything but i know some people really feelin dat and it is so unattractive.
i don't thinks she means play hard to get...it's more like don't bend over backwards or try too hard. just be natural and let him fall for the real you not the desperate you.
i've dealt with a man who tried too hard to impress me and i found it sickening. had to throw him to the curb.
KC why couldn't you speak your wise words sooner? I always put more into a relationship than the other person. It sucks cause there's always hurt involved....and always for me. Why can't they ever see how much I can give and appreciate it instead of abuse it?
i don't thinks she means play hard to get...it's more like don't bend over backwards or try too hard. just be natural and let him fall for the real you not the desperate you.
i've dealt with a man who tried too hard to impress me and i found it sickening. had to throw him to the curb.
I agree Tia, Just be you, and do you, that will be enough for a Real man. I think many woman make the mistake(been here too) of thinking that they can love a man enough for the both of you. If there is not reciprocity,the relationship will not sustain. Both parties have to be working at it, and want a common destination.
Ducani, you hit the nail on the head with all of your advice! More men should think the way you do. And, you are so right about complimenting us after we've spent time making ourselves look good for you. That is so important to us. And, sometimes it takes more than two hours to get ready if it's one of those special nights. A woman will usually get her hair done, get a manicure, pedicure, waxing services, etc.
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Originally Posted by Ducani
Here are a few that ive
learned over the years.
Dos:
Suprise them with something you know they would love but it doesnt have to be
something big cause as they all say, its the little things that count. (every mikkle mek a mukkle)
Compliment them
on when they make a special effort to look nice just for you. Guys women put some serious work into looking beautiful for you
and if after they have spent that time (usually like 2 hours or more) if you dont think its all that then look instead at the
beauty in the person for doing it all for you.
Cook for your woman. Yes you heard me. You dont have to do it all the
time but just as we appreciate them doing it for us they would appreciate us doing it for them. Breakfast in bed is always a
winner and a special dinner prepared while they are out will put a smile on their face when they get home.
When you
are out all night with your friends drinking, partying or whatever it is you do and shes all alone at home. Give her a call
if even if its just for a few seconds just to let her know that youre thinking about her and that you want to know that she
is ok.
Donts:
Never take your woman for granted.
Never ignore your woman when she is talking to you even
if you think she is just nagging. Women have a way of telling you how they are feeling during regular conversation but guys
usually dont even realise this and sometimes by the time they do realise it is too late.
Dos:
Suprise them with something you know they would love but it doesnt have to be
something big cause as they all say, its the little things that count. (every mikkle mek a mukkle)
Compliment them
on when they make a special effort to look nice just for you. Guys women put some serious work into looking beautiful for you
and if after they have spent that time (usually like 2 hours or more) if you dont think its all that then look instead at the
beauty in the person for doing it all for you.
Cook for your woman. Yes you heard me. You dont have to do it all the
time but just as we appreciate them doing it for us they would appreciate us doing it for them. Breakfast in bed is always a
winner and a special dinner prepared while they are out will put a smile on their face when they get home.
When you
are out all night with your friends drinking, partying or whatever it is you do and shes all alone at home. Give her a call
if even if its just for a few seconds just to let her know that youre thinking about her and that you want to know that she
is ok.
Donts:
Never take your woman for granted.
Never ignore your woman when she is talking to you even
if you think she is just nagging. Women have a way of telling you how they are feeling during regular conversation but guys
usually dont even realise this and sometimes by the time they do realise it is too late.
Never Hit Your Woman.
I told you him was Dusexycani to be coming up with things like this. SO TRUE! and men tek a seat and learn some lessons.
My Dos and Don'ts:
Please don't ask me if I'm alright if you see my face screw...obviously I'm not!
Please do, no and then give a massage I will return the favor.
The way you start a relationship is the way it will end.Please do not try to change people. Trust, respect, communication, understanding, love, compliments makes a diffrence.Do good and good will be done to you.
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