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Old 09-13-2008, 03:08 PM
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Addressing Flirting

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Old 09-13-2008, 03:09 PM
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Re: Addressing Flirting

If it was your flirtatious partner...

Would you address it or ignore it?

Would you raise the issue with the person getting the attention from your partner?
Suppose you were the one accused of flirting?
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Old 09-13-2008, 03:24 PM
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Re: Addressing Flirting

I'd like to hear your take on the guy's behavior, Alex..........

I think tickling is inappropriate.
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Old 09-13-2008, 05:23 PM
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Re: Addressing Flirting

I would proly reach for his privates beneath the table and squeeze dem until he turned pale and has to excuse himself to the bathroom... when he does I will excuse myself and follow him to show him my dull machete just incase he forgot what it looks like
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I am a big flirt. Had to be reeled in when I got in a relationship. Just comes naturally, no act. I really like men in general in a superficial way (not boyfriends, obviously). But, I am also friendly with women. I am just a gabber. Can find anything to talk about. No shyness here.
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Re: Addressing Flirting

If it was your flirtatious partner...

Would you address it or ignore it? Ignore what??? you mussah mad.

Would you raise the issue with the person getting the attention from your partner? nope

Suppose you were the one accused of flirting?not happening
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If it was your flirtatious partner... depends on how flirtatious,,if very i would feel disrespected.

Would you address it or ignore it? If he were very flirtatious I would address it, also know he probably won't change, and dump him.

Would you raise the issue with the person getting the attention from your partner?
Suppose you were the one accused of flirting?
No raise issue with other person, not their fault. I have been accused of flirting, but not by a boyfriend.
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I personally don't like flirting...it can lead to other things. The tickling is WAYYY OUT OF LINE. Each one to keep their hands to themselves.
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I'd like to hear your take on the guy's behavior, Alex..........

I think tickling is inappropriate.
When a man is in the presence of his woman/wife/lover/S.O., he should not give any undue attention to any other woman nor to behave in any way that would cause embarrassement to her.

Tickling, touching or any other ver-extended physical contact is inappropriate.

Out of his woman's presence, it is left up to him and his conscience to behave in any manner he deems appropriate.
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I am a big flirt. Had to be reeled in when I got in a relationship. Just comes naturally, no act. I really like men in general in a superficial way (not boyfriends, obviously). But, I am also friendly with women. I am just a gabber. Can find anything to talk about. No shyness here.
All my life, I have been "accused" of having the "stare".

I guess I unconsciously (and at times, consciously) flirt with my eyes.
But I never stare (at least not when my lady is watching) nor wiould I ever make physical contact such as light touching, tickiling, whatever.
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When a man is in the presence of his woman/wife/lover/S.O., he should not give any undue attention to any other woman nor to behave in any way that would cause embarrassement to her.

Tickling, touching or any other ver-extended physical contact is inappropriate.

Out of his woman's presence, it is left up to him and his conscience to behave in any manner he deems appropriate.
wether its within or not in her presence he should behave him %$@&^*% self, do you know how embarressing it is for a woman ti find out he deh pan di road flirtin' wid evrybady an den cum play saint aroun har? Cho!! Dull machete mi tell yu
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All my life, I have been "accused" of having the "stare".

I guess I unconsciously (and at times, consciously) flirt with my eyes.
But I never stare (at least not when my lady is watching) nor wiould I ever make physical contact such as light touching, tickiling, whatever.
My boyfriend does this...as in he stares. If something interests him, confuses him, whatever, he STARES. When I first noticed this about him I had it in mind to get jealous, but then the more I observed him the more I realized that he stares at everyone and everything: young people, old people, women, men (not like that), basically anything that catches his attention. It's different from ogling - it's like he's trying to "read" the person...

He has these very piercing eyes and unlike some people who will make eye contact and then look away, he will often not look away. It's a little unnerving. I can see how this can be mistaken by some as rude, or even flirtatious...
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Have a threesome with your husband and the other woman. Problem solved.
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All my life, I have been "accused" of having the "stare".

I guess I unconsciously (and at times, consciously) flirt with my eyes.
But I never stare (at least not when my lady is watching) nor wiould I ever make physical contact such as light touching, tickiling, whatever.
Funny you mention the stare. My boyfriend stares, not just at women, but anyone. I think is is just sizing-up the person, analyzing.Do I dare ask you, is this something common among Ja men, a learned trait, something Jas copy from their parents or whatever? Or is it just something anyone may do?
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My boyfriend does this...as in he stares. If something interests him, confuses him, whatever, he STARES. When I first noticed this about him I had it in mind to get jealous, but then the more I observed him the more I realized that he stares at everyone and everything: young people, old people, women, men (not like that), basically anything that catches his attention. It's different from ogling - it's like he's trying to "read" the person...

He has these very piercing eyes and unlike some people who will make eye contact and then look away, he will often not look away. It's a little unnerving. I can see how this can be mistaken by some as rude, or even flirtatious...
Didn't see yur post. This is exactly what I see. I guess they grow up learning or seeing this in their culture.
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