So I asked this girl out to the movies and she tells me she doesnt know, she'll think about it. Is that a easy way of telling a guy shes not interested?

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That's what they at Scotland Yard call "a clue."

Normal tone, nothing demeaning

Could be.Then again maybe she meant what she said and she'll get back to you.I guess you'll just have to see.In the meantime,find someone else to go to the movies with

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May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

No way she was letting you down easy....I know cause this is how I do it, but the guys never freakin take the hint and they always force me to be mean to them......so just let it go its the best thing if I am wrong she will get back to you and then all will be well, if I am right and you just let it go you will save both of you from an awkward moment if you ask her again.

if I say I'll think about it that means I'll think about it...

If I am not interested I will say I am not interested then shew them away like a gnat.

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

LMAO

she may be testing you to see how much your interested. ask one more time then move on.

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Yes, you were rejected.

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maybe she really wants to think about it. maybe she has other things on her mind/plate right now and cant really focus on that right now.

ther ARE some honest ppl out there that will tell you to blow off. so i would wait and not ask agian. i would chill and depending on your association with her, feel her out and see if the oportunity comes again...i WOULD NOT PRESS the issue though.

OR.............u could just tell her that you are really interested in taking her out (and if she is just not interested in you at all ASK HER) ALSO, if she would prefer to go some place other that the movies, that would be good also.......(i never go to movies on first date)

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I agree Uptowngirl. It sounds like she is not interested.

omg god people... let's give the poor man the real truth. I think he can take it...

Davey mi fren... move on to the next girl... EVEN IF she is interested, she's either playing games (yuck) or she's unsure... Do you want to deal with her in either case??? I wouldn't.

All I can say is that when I guy that I am REALLY interested in (and frankly, if it was me, I wouldn't waste my time going out with anyone who isn't REALLY interested in me ever again) asks me out, I agree immediately. No games. No BS. Life is too short.

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"This above all else, to thine own self be true"-- William Shakespeare, Hamlet

sounds like women in here play games...cuz if you are not interested just say you are not.

i told someone once that i wanted to think about going out with him cuz i wanted to do just that....think about it. I had just come out of a relatinship and wanted time to think if i was ready to date again...he asked me again and i told him the same thing...i wanted to think....a few weeks later he asked me again and i said yes! we spent 5 years and had two babies together...

so MAYBE she just want to think...but the best thing to do is just ask her if she is interested or not

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