There's this guy who works out at where I work, he always stops and talkes to me, asks for me when he don't see me, makes certain comments and follows me when I walk out for a cup of coffee, his body language says that he's really into me but he still hasn't asked me for my number does this mean that mabe I read to much into it and mabe he's not really interested.
I really want your input cause I'm really into this guy

This is 2008....if you are interested, ask him out for lunch or something. What are you waiting for? The worse thing that can happen is he will make some stupid excuse that gives you the other answer.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

I'm afraid of getting rejcected and becasue he hasnt' asked me for my numbe yet i'm not sure if that means he's not into me

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I have risen above it all...
There is no need to argue anymore...

Well, you can sit there freaking out about it for weeks, months, years.....all the while tearing down your self-esteem, doubting yourself, or you ask him out yourself. Whatever he says, you now know the answer. If it's yes, you'll find out he likes you and daydream about the possibilities.....great feelings. If he says no, well, now you know.....you didn't die from the answer, and you'll move on to someone else. It's really not life or death here.

Just do it, girl!

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

I'd be like "DUDE!!! Either ask me out or GET OFF MY BUMPER!!!!"

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

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I'd wait for him to make the first move. I don't make the first move LOL

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Same here. I don't chase guys, I like to be chased.................... LOL

And that's how I am as well I want men to chase me but I don't get it he's always talking to me like today I saw him and he touched my shoulder and just his body language says he's into me but he still hasn't aked for my number mabe i'm reading to much into it mabe he's just flirting and thats it.

He may be having trouble reading your signs too. Who knows...maybe he's wondering "does she like me? She doesn't seem to mind when we get coffee together, but maybe she's just being nice."

If you really don't want to ask for his number (or offer yours), I would do something to give him a stronger sign so he knows you'll say yes when he asks for your number.
Some examples:
Ask a mutual acquaintance (someone you know will go back and tell him) something that clearly signals you're interested in more than just frienship (like, "what's up with your friend? Is he single?")
Make sure you find ways to touch him (like on the knee or arm)

I know these sound trite, but they work. And guys hate rejection just as much as we do so short of asking him for his number, you need to give him clear signals that you won't reject him.

let me quote myself...

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

I've touched his arm and rubbed him on the shoulder and he's touched my hair and today he goes to me how was your weekend I go good how was yours and he said it would be better if you were there I don't get it I've given him enough signals that I like him but he also knows that i'm a flirt by nature so mabe he thinks that i'm just flirting, but there's no way i'll make the first move i'm old fashioned I think he should do it.

If he hasn't already there is a reason...maybe he has a GF or Wife....have you thought of that?...I mean I hope not but with all this flirting and touching and he hasn't asked you out...I suspect there is a reason

Agreed. If you've given him all the signals, and he's still not making a move, maybe there is someone else in the picture.

BUT, a similar thing happened to my friend (lots of flirting, nothing direct). 3 years later, they're engaged to be married next year. Turns out he just wanted to take things slow and really get to know her as a person before taking it to the next level...

Not to give you false hope, but if you have the patience then perhaps your questions will be answered in time?? Personally, I don't have the patience! lol