To Date or Not to Date Younger Men - Jamaica Talk

paz · #1 (**permalink**) 09-30-2004, 12:05 PM

Alright, men have had their "trophy dates" since for ever, it use to be women
would stay home (generally speaking) take care of house and kids. For better or worse things have changed, women are out there too, we are paying our dues, we can call the shots... So would you find romance/sex in a younger men's arm?.... Demi Moore, Susan Sarandon and Cher look good stepping out
with their young bwoy ... I know that for most of you a younger guy would mean a pre-teen ... and you guys would you go with an "older women"

"As long as women are encouraged to work the horrid hours it takes to
become a big-wig executive, then some abdominally obsessive 20-year-old with a nice smile and surfer hair should be able to be wined and dined by her." < this is a quote from an article I read.

JaGoBi · #2 (**permalink**) 09-30-2004, 12:28 PM

For a good part of my early 20's I've dated older women. I've always been attracted to older women. They say that age ain't nuttin but a number, but at times it's more than that. I think what I like most about dating an older woman is the maturity and experiences (sexual & non-sexual) that they can share with me. Also, from my experience they seem to know what they want in the relationship. No BS, games, assumptions, etc. I'm not saying that ONLY older women are this way, but just droppin my two cents.......

HotanSpicy · #3 (**permalink**) 09-30-2004, 01:07 PM

I seem to attract alot of younger guys because they assume I'm in their age group because I'm so little,...now I have dated younger men and I've found that for the most part the ones that I have come into contact with are mature,intersting and intelligent and know what is that they want. You never know where you're going to find love and affection,....now unless he's waaay younger than me I don't question it anymore. I Go with the flow.

LuvJamaicanMen · #4 (**permalink**) 09-30-2004, 01:26 PM

i've only dated older men!..oldest being 28 when i was 16!..lolol...eeh heh..seh whatevah oonu want to seh!..

Princessblack · #5 (**permalink**) 09-30-2004, 02:02 PM

I have always dated older men, but I have found however that no matter the age we are going to find some immaturity. So I say, older or younger, no problem. No older than 10 years no younger than 2-3 years. As long as they are mature men.

delicious · #6 (**permalink**) 10-01-2004, 12:25 AM

I will let you guys in on a little secret I am older than my husband not much but still I don't think anything is wrong unless you are dating a 13 year old -18 when you are 35 not good sick sick sick sick lets live in reality young not new born

Kenbrown · #7 (**permalink**) 10-03-2004, 04:57 PM

I think dating older women is great. They really know what they are doing in bed. vary straight forword and also have better lisening skill. younger girls have more issues in life and are kinda a pain in the ass.

Kitten · #8 (**permalink**) 10-03-2004, 07:31 PM

I think people should date who they please if there legal age. They can do what they want to. But for me right now dating a younger person would mean he would be a youth and I not down for dating kids.

buttafli · #9 (**permalink**) 11-24-2004, 08:44 PM

It would depend on how much younger and his maturity level. I wouldn't want a man who lack the maturity to be in a relationship.

Blingee$ha · #10 (**permalink**) 11-24-2004, 08:54 PM

In my experience, it seems as though men that are younger than me (I'm 22..23 next Monday ) are generally looking for different things in life than I am. Also they are not emotionally mature. By that I mean I have already been through a lot, and I think I have a good idea of what I want and that... they don't know what they want yet. There are so many reasons why, but I personally, am not into guys younger than me.

Although.. funny story lol Some 18 year old tried to mack on me last week lol lol he told me his name was "Blaze" he was like 20. I told him that I KNOW he's MAX.. oike 19 and that his mummy never named him that. ANWYA...... the fool let his birth certificate fall out of his wallet while searching for something. LOL... I casually picked it up, inspected it and said: "Well COREY... it looks like you just turned 18 last month, and you mother gave you 4 nice names... BLAZE sounds stupi" lol lol fool!

Slim · #11 (**permalink**) 11-28-2004, 07:23 AM

for whatever reason, i attract both young and old and have dated both. with the younger ones i come in contact with they were rather mature enough to have had a relationship with. however, alll went well, problem = being able to deal with an "independent" woman without insecurities....fell short. just my experience

buttafli · #12 (**permalink**) 11-28-2004, 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Slim

however, alll went well, problem = being able to deal with an "independent" woman without insecurities....fell short. just my experience

That has been my experience as well. I've actually closed the age difference gap....nothing less to 2.

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