I find my friend's exhusband very sexy.

Could you date a friend's ex man or husband?

NO!!!

Exes or bfs or man of ANY friends are offlimits.

Just ethics.

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Agree to one-millionth degree!

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Yah, I'm going to say no to this one too.

Hasn't she filled you in on all his bad points?

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

The woman is no longer my friend....
She was a good friend for so many years and I did so many bad things to her. I would get drunk and do all kinds of things. I urinated on her brand new carpet one time. I sleep with her husband several times and I recently shared all this with her. I tried to hurt her and thought she would be a Christian about it and forgive me and we move on, but she went off on me and ended our 27 year friendship. The sad thing about this is that she had taken care of me for so long, I really didn't know how to function on my own.

I was a mess. She made all my decisions for me, took care of everything. I even convined her to move down to Raleigh. She and her family moved down there and all hell broke loose. My mom came down and brought me back to CT to rehab. My friend went to my house to take care of it and her ex husband called. To make a long story short. She found out that he and I had an affair, she found out he had children with another woman...etc...

Love.....I'm sorry; but if you did all that stuff to me, sleeping with my husband would've just been the last straw.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

Co-sign and let me add one thing. Just count your blessing that all she did was end the friendship. Because her telling you off could have been followed by an extraordinary @ss whoopin'!

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Welcome to the Yoville Addiction

seems like you have had some really bad problems...going to rehab and all would indicate you had some sort of addiction and therefore your behavior is NOT excused but understood. Be glad you had such a freind... as tiem goes on maybe you can make peace with her, but hopefully you can make peace with yourself. Wish you luch on your road to recovery

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I SAW ZION IN A VISION, JAH WAS THERE AND HE IS EVERYONE, STRECHING FOR HIS RIGHT HAND, OH, ITS LIKE A FAMILY REUINON.--RIP Garnet Silk

I know I was wrong and I'm finally coming to terms with all I did. I am so hurt and disappointed with myself. All I have is time on my hands. I sit and think about all I did. At first, I couldn't understand why she felt this way, it was like I had it in my mind that her purpose in life was to take care of me. She never said no to me before and I actually thought I could do what I wanted to do to her. Don't get me wrong, she would tell me off and let me know that it wasn't like that and we would move on.

My biggest problem is I've always wanted her life. I wanted to be her. She is very pretty and very humble about her looks. She is real smart. She goes to college gets straight A's and never really opens the books. She raised 2 girls and a stepson that respect her so much and my kids won't even call me Mom.

Looking back at all the stuff I did to her, I see now that I need to grow up. She helped raise my 3 kids right along with her 3. She put up with all my mess while I was drinking, now that I've been sober for almost a month now, I see all my errors. I am really ashamed of myself. I guess I just really needed to get it out in the open. I feel bad for what I did to her. My stupidity cost me a great friend.

Yes, it did.

But, you have the rest of your life to get yourself together. I'm sure she worked really hard for all she had. You can have all of it, if you really want it.

Facing your past and your problems is the first step. Seems like you have come a really long way. You should be proud of that part. We all make mistakes. You can't really dwell on them cause you can't go back and change them. You can only move on.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

Write her letter and apologize if it really bothers you and move on.

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Welcome to the Yoville Addiction

honey...i think the games you are playing are for kids.....IF you really have a problem, I hope you really find help and wish you luck wit that in all honesty.

but all this nonsense bout being sorry and losing a freind...I hope you dont think you will get sympathy from me. I can spot a BS'er a MILE away suga and see right thru you. U come on here and your first post is spitting that you find your freinds husband sexy...the same freind that you treated like dirt, and then in the next post tell how you slep with her husband and lost a freind and how sorry you are....sorry ou sleep with your friends SEXY husband.

PLEASE!!!

look,... go to rehap, get some help,,,be honest with yourself and others...blessings will come to you~!

this is actually funny...i understand the need to entertain yourself on the net...i do it myself...so this is hilarious! cuz you really cant be serious

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I SAW ZION IN A VISION, JAH WAS THERE AND HE IS EVERYONE, STRECHING FOR HIS RIGHT HAND, OH, ITS LIKE A FAMILY REUINON.--RIP Garnet Silk

I should have used a better thread to start my conversation, but this is all true. I am too old to play on the net and why would I waste my time....I just needed some place to get the thoughts out. I'm sorry I came on her now.

And if I were you, I wouldn't let too many people know that you play on the net because then no one will take you seriously.

And I really don't owe you an explanation.....If you are playing on the net then you must not really have too much going on in your life Missy.

I've tried writing her, but she decided that she didn't want the friendship any longer and I have to respect that.