I want someone whom I feel can protect me, make me feel safe and secure, and not alone. And I want to spoon at nights. He can even leave in the night if he wants to, just stay til I'm asleep.



Its been tough times lately and I know this is what I need RIGHT now. Too bad they all just want booty.

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Oh JamCan I understand wid de part weh they just want sex and the lovey-dovey stuff. Which real woman wouldn't want that?

Listen I have learned to say screw THEM and DO me.

Work on you, enjoy you, go out with you, take a stand for you, do you.

Its hard to do and to say no but there comes a time when we just have to do what is best for US and hopefully, if it be God's will, he will bless us with the desires of our hearts.

I hope your days and nights get better.

You are all woman and if a man is never there you are still woman. You dont need them men to validate you.

Smouches.

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Agree completely, Princess - And I also believe that once you have found yourself, and validate yourself, is when the best relationship comes along - You have to make peace with your past, accept what has happened, learn from it, and then firmly pack it away - Once you are able to do that, the right man will come along - You get back in life what you give out - In order to have a man value you and cherish you, you have to value and cherish yourself first.

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JC, I say this with all the love I feel for you.....you have some things to straighten out with you and yours before you can even think of adding anyone else to the equation.

And, you know I have always felt there is someone very special out there for you who will eventually find you, realize how beautiful you are inside and out, and make you a respectable women. (Couldn't resist that last part!) Seriously, though.....He's there and he'll be everything you want in a man. Just hang in there.

I'm pretty sure he's in St. Louis and lives right down the street from me so that when you immigrate, we'll be close!

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No way!!!! !!!!!!!

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Oh, yah, Mon!

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I agree with PB. I think you should just focus on Team JC right now and the rest will fall into place. Just don't sell yourself short.

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Thanks you guys. And just to clarify.....I'm not saying I don't have more important things to focus on. I know there's not place for anyone right now.

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O.A. I was meant 2 luv u..

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Would you be happy with "just someone", JC?

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Never mind, I don't think you guys get it. I'm not looking to "be with" anyone. Just a friend, SOMEONE who could just be there. Someone bigger than me, to make me feel safer, more comfort.

That's all, don't try and read anything into it.

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Okay. It was the spooning reference that threw me. I don't believe I've ever spooned wiwth someone who was just a friend.

You want someone to wrap you in some big strong arms and hold you till you feel safe!

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