i totally understand jam. back in my single days, i seemed to feel the same way quite often. was even starting to think that i needed a gay guy friend to just hold me and comfort me.

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I actually do have a gay guy like this at work. He will occassionally come to my desk and kiss my forhead and rub my shoulders, just asking how I am today.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

Thats what I want too, no complication no pressure just TLC and protection, from someone who is secure enough in himself and cares enough about me to allow me to move at a pace that is right for me

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I still think my friend Emer the security guard is the best option.
I'll give you a hug....if you can get 1stP off my back...I mean case.

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JC... I totally understand the feeling. Totally and completely. You are just "feeling out loud"... I feel ya girl.

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Glad you all "get it".

But Samba.....I dont' think my comfort is worth fighting your wife for LOL

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No problem mon. The wife dont get jealous for such stuff. Maybe if I started saying "JamCan" in my sleep I might have to apply for a Canadian visa.

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LOL something tells me you might need that visa for spooning with me too.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

I just spoon with my cat Hemingway...he is not that tall but he is warm and mean so i feel secure.....lololol

I totally understand the feeling Jam.....

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Nona Manis.. finding out where I belong

O.A. I was meant 2 luv u..

What!!!! ????? Those are excellent qualities for a spooning partner!

What?!

JC you moving to AMerica?

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PB if you can show me ANYWHERE IN THIS THREAD that indicates that, I will not comment on your crackpipe.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

So before I draw a conclusion and spread the red carpet, I decided to ask. Dont act so...I dont smoke.

Thanks in Advance.

PS. Type 1 for yes and 2 for no.

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there is a couple that come in to my store regularly... i walked outside one day and saw him opening the door for her... I thought "how sweet"... so the next time they came in I asked how long they had been married... they told me 30 years... can you believe that...

that is what I want... a man that will still remember the little things after 30 years.

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10