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Old 12-20-2007, 01:57 PM
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Do you put limits, conditions or stipulations on your friendships? Or can you just like someone for who they are, regardless of a bad day/week? Do you offer them things "conditional" to whether they behave a certain way?
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Do you put limits, conditions or stipulations on your friendships? Or can you just like someone for who they are, regardless of a bad day/week? Do you offer them things "conditional" to whether they behave a certain way?
My friendship for you is unconditional.. I hate your guts sumtimes
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I am complex... I have many levels of frenship. The lower the level the less I care about what is said or what kind of actions are taken...the higher the level the more I care.

But on the same token.....if you are on a high level of frenship, then we already understand one another and are comfy in saying what we feel without worrying about it or we know what to say or not to say.... an understanding of sorts.
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if you are on a high level of frenship, then we already understand one another and are comfy in saying what we feel without worrying about it or we know what to say or not to say
What if you're on a moderate to high level but the friend STILL imposes rules as to how the friendship should run? Personally I think its rubbish....
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What if you're on a moderate to high level but the friend STILL imposes rules as to how the friendship should run? Personally I think its rubbish....

Rules for a friendship is strange to mi. That seems a bit more of control...which is not healthy. If a fren tried to control me..they would be placed at the lower level and I would juss live how I want..they accept it or not.

Now if a fren was giving good advice...that's different. I would listen and use my better judgement of what they are trying to say. I would try to understand. If it's bad advice, then I would simply let them know. If they aggrevated mi too much...I would distance miself.
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If a fren tried to control me..they would be placed at the lower level and I would juss live how I want.
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What if you're on a moderate to high level but the friend STILL imposes rules as to how the friendship should run? Personally I think its rubbish....
Only rule there should be between female friends is the man thing... thats it... with Higher level friends, you wont have to discuss at all.
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Amen sista.

I dont fair very well with control. At some point I would burst and dat would be it. I am a bit introverted.

Also....as far as frens go... I have a bad habit of avoiding and ignoring. To be honest, my frens have to be of the very patient and forgiving type...it's juss my distant kind of personality I have.
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What if you're on a moderate to high level but the friend STILL imposes rules as to how the friendship should run? Personally I think its rubbish....
I agree 100%.


While friendship should have guidelines it should be mutually fulfilling.

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What if you're on a moderate to high level but the friend STILL imposes rules as to how the friendship should run? Personally I think its rubbish....
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Jam? A British Canadian?
DWL actually I had to think twice whether or not I was gonna use that word. I can't believe you picked it out!!!
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Re: Conditional???
I would like to say that my relationships, friendships or otherwise, hold no conditions, but I would be lying... I tend to be one who looks closely at others integrity... do they do what they say they will, do they follow through, do they try to live their lives in alignment with virtuousness...

I know everyone screws up at times and no one is perfect, so I am very forgiving too... but I value honesty and integrity above most everything else... so those make my friendships conditional.
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