A baby story - Page 4 - Jamaica Talk

Jamaicasun21 · #46 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 06:52 PM

Jaydn's gotta be here by now.... Any Updates????

JamCan · #47 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 07:24 PM

No updates YET but I'm on pins and needles waiting!

MissB · #48 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 08:05 PM

We are not such a patient family are we?????? LOL

Lillywight · #49 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 08:29 PM

Sorry . . . no further updates. If I don't hear anything within an hour or so, I'm gonna call the hospital and check on her.

JamCan · #50 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 09:57 PM

LOLOL Lilly you're worse than her mother probably. Harassing the hospital.

Thanks so much Lilly for the constant updates, you were our eyes and ears girl.

Lillywight · #51 (**permalink**) 12-21-2007, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by JamCan

LOLOL Lilly you're worse than her mother probably. Harassing the hospital.

Thanks so much Lilly for the constant updates, you were our eyes and ears girl.

I was much more patient than I wanted to be! I waited until 8:20 p.m. before I called the hospital!!! Jadyn was already 4 hours old when I knew I was an Auntie!

ShyCutieGirl · #52 (**permalink**) 02-05-2008, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by ShyCutieGirl

I can start my story now...

Went for dr appointment yesterday at 1:30, I was 2 centemeters dilated and the head was down in the pelvic area. He scheduled my appointment for next week, but told me he didnt think I would be coming for another one. He was correct, I awoke at 4am with consistent 10 minute apart contractions, so I am now waiting for them to go to 5 minutes or my water to break so i can head to the hospital to have a Jadyn. So now its a waiting game. Not sure when I will be back on, but Lilly will have updates she can share with everyone.

Oh yea, these contractions are definitely no picnic, you dont know what your in for till your in it. Its an intense feeling of back pain, having to take a poop, with severe menstrual cramps. Epideral here I come...

Ok I feel one coming, gotta gooooo

Keep us in your prayers, god bless
SCG

I just noticd I never finished the whole hospital part of the story... I dont have time now, but next time I remember I will try to write it...

ShyCutieGirl · #53 (**permalink**) 02-14-2008, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by ShyCutieGirl

I can start my story now...

Went for dr appointment yesterday at 1:30, I was 2 centemeters dilated and the head was down in the pelvic area. He scheduled my appointment for next week, but told me he didnt think I would be coming for another one. He was correct, I awoke at 4am with consistent 10 minute apart contractions, so I am now waiting for them to go to 5 minutes or my water to break so i can head to the hospital to have a Jadyn. So now its a waiting game. Not sure when I will be back on, but Lilly will have updates she can share with everyone.

Oh yea, these contractions are definitely no picnic, you dont know what your in for till your in it. Its an intense feeling of back pain, having to take a poop, with severe menstrual cramps. Epideral here I come...

Ok I feel one coming, gotta gooooo

Keep us in your prayers, god bless
SCG

Continued

Around 11am I was still at home dealing with contractions that were 5, 3, 2 minutes apart inconsistent. I called the nurse and she made it clear that unless they are 5 minutes apart consitently for one hour then call back. My mom didnt think she understood that they were all over the place and inconsitent and that we should go in, but they made they tell you that you dont want to head to the hospital and be told to go home, so I waited it out. I called back at 12 and told them they were 5 minutes apart even know they were still inconsitent but constant.

We head to the hospital and I am a bit moody, telling my mom to go faster (keep in mind my mom is not the best driver and it was a very windy day) while she is gripping the steering wheel. At one point, I say I should have just driven myself.

We get to the hospital and I am having contractions while they are checking me in. The women is asking me these questions that I could really care less about. Every few minutes I have to stop to breath through contractions.

Its around 1pm. They get me upstairs to a room were you go to get checked before they put you in a room, just in case you are not far enough and they need to send you home. I go into the bathroom to pee in a cup and it just happens that I loss my mucas plug. I am laying in the bed while the nurse is hooking up the monitors and asking me questions. I was focusing on this object on the ceiling to get through contractions. At this point she is going to check to see how much I am dialated. I was curious myself. I was 6 centimeters and 100% afaced. The nurse was very surprised I could stay home that long and labor. I passed the test, I get my own room now.

It was around 2 I think when they contractions were so bad one after another with no breaks in between. The doctor came in and checked me I was now 7 centimeters dilated. I asked when I could get my epideral. They have to pull blood to check platelettes before they will give it to you. They told me it would take about a half hour to get the results, I was not happy. When the 30 minutes came around I was very vocal in saying were is my epideral, its been 30 minutes. I go the epideral around 3:15pm.

Anyone who doesnt get one, you dont know what your missing. I was feeling good after it kicked in. Before the epideral I wasnt talking to anyone, even the doctors, I was in so much pain rocking my head back and forth, after the epideral, I was talking and laughing.

Around 4pm, they came in to roll me on my side, and as soon as I did I felt alot of pressure and it felt very different. I asked them to check me. I was 9 centimeters dilated. They said they would come back to check in a little while. I would say withing 15 minutes, I felt alot of pressure and the urge to push. They checked again and I was 10 centimeters and ready to push.

They nursed get you ready and even have you push awhile with them, because most of the time first time deliveries can take awhile, but after a few pushes they knew I was going to be a fast one so they called the dr, who just happened to be delivering another woman. She came in had me push a few times. Since she was still in the middle of sewing up the other lady, and I guess she thought I would be awhil longer she left. I was not happy. I kept saying I have to push were is the dr. My mom was saying its ok, push if you need to the nurse will deliver you. The one nurse helping the one in front of me was saying, the doctor wants us to wait. WHAT THE HELL!! I am in pain, and the dr wants them to have me wait on pushing so she can finish someone else?! With my mom telling me to push if I need to and the nurse saying she could deliver me about 5 pushes later, Jadyn was born.

The doctor came in a few minutes later and you can tell she was visabley not happy that they didnt wait for her to deliver.

Its true what they say its painful at the time but a few weeks later you forget about it and can imagine doing it again...

I love you my sweet baby Jadyn, you are my little peanut girl....

GhettoGurl · #54 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:18 PM

I am missing Nigel so much today so ima FINALLY tell my story

It was May 4th 2001 when I woke up with belly pain, two whole more weeks before Nigel was supposed to be born .. michael was working double shifts so he could take a whole month off after Nigel was born to take care of us ...

My neighbor Flora and her kids Dyron & Aisleen kept an eye on me... Aisleen walked in and asked me if I wanted sumthing to eat but I thought I was gettin a diarrea attack and passed... Michael called @ 10 am, I had been on the toilet times already but for "sum" reason it wasnt happening for me... at 5pm the pains were getting a likkle heavy and I decided to go to Flora for sum tea.. when I told her how long I was having "cramps" she freaked out completely!!!!!!!! She's like.. OMG ur in labor, I was like NO WAY.. I figured it would hurt A LOT MORE!!! I didnt even have my hospital bag prepared ... I called Mike and he thought it was anudda joke since I pulled a "my water broke" joke on him a week before .... GG was in labor and I was happy and excited.

I called the midwife and she said, since the fact that Nigel was a BIG baby I should call her as soon as I get to the hospital...

An hour later and after getting a mad phonecall from Flora Michael FINALLY got home

GhettoGurl · #55 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:26 PM

I insisted on shaving my private area BEFORE getting to the hospital, I had many dreams of a nazi nurse cutting my coochie to pieces during my pregnancy.. Michael was like WTF but he was a good sport and gave me a hand

On our way down town (NO F*CKIN PUN INTENDED dang finally said it hehe ) I started to get heavy contractions and I wanted to kill everybody I saw, including the baby daddy to be , we had to stop by and pick up my mom cuz she had to hold my hand ... As we got closer to my mom's house I started to feel sick.. I told Mike to stop but he said, we soon reach, HOLD IT IN, I swear I thought I was gonna kill him that day, especially since I puked in MY car IN the A/C ducts ... when we got to my mom's house I wanted to shower again and we waited while my dad cleaned out my car, he was so sweet!!!

My brother was small and he drew a picture of me, Mike and our brand new baby, I was in pain and cussed him sick when I showed me it because I thought I looked ugly LOL Poor boy cried for an hour LOL

Dejavoux · #56 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Samba

Come on Deja....no way...the story sounds too easy (the ladies are gonna kill me). Nice story.

LOL It was pretty easy pushing her out, al whole lot easier than I thought or even than it should have been. But I did alot of Kegels and was a good pusher. I did have ALOT of internal stitches to show for my pushing through my cervex don't get me wrong.

GhettoGurl · #57 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:37 PM

I got to the hospital at 11pm!!!!!!!!!!! I am not a screamer so I frowned a lot when I was having contractions, Michael dared to ask if I was in pain OMG I was gonna ask for an epadural to stick in his neck!!!! Good thing they dont give those here.. it goes au natural

The delivery room was the funniest thing, there were signs ALL over the place saying that if you broke anything it would be added to the hospital bill LMAO

So henyways... they put me on that machine and the lady was like DAMN, are you not feeling any pain? I was like well DUHHH WTF yu tink I here for? She said I was extremely cool, especially since I was just a baby (I was 18 so legal )

The midwife arrived she was kinda mad because I called her at 5pm and didnt get there until 6 hrs later, she did the finger thingy and gave me the bad news, I had been in labor for over 12 hours and dialated 1 friggin centimeter

GhettoGurl · #58 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:53 PM

She continued telling me that I had to go home and eat lightly, I'd proly be back before 6 am.......... I was hungry after puking in my car and I insisted that we get Wendy's on our way to my mom's house, where we would be spending the night since our house was quite a drive...

We played monopoly all night because I couldnt sleep, the pain was getting worse, I wish I could have stayed at the hospital since at home it was easier to choke people to death, I felt so violent

at 8 am on May 5th I decided to call the midwife who was up since 5 am waiting for my call... She said I should meet her at the gyno, she wanted to do sum tests... I got there at 9 am, this time fast fast, I wanted this baby out of me NOW

Mike was being cute and held my hand all thru the tests, the gyno injected sum gel onto my womb and gave me an infuse to stimulate more contractions... at 7pm I was back at the hospital... dying of pain and still 1 friggin centimeter dialation

Dejavoux · #59 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ShyCutieGirl

Continued

Anyone who doesnt get one, you dont know what your missing. I was feeling good after it kicked in. Before the epideral I wasnt talking to anyone, even the doctors, I was in so much pain rocking my head back and forth, after the epideral, I was talking and laughing.

You know mine the guy came in after Id been in labor for 10 hours finally gave me mine and then came back one hour later and TURNED IT BACK OFF!!!! Said he wanted me to FEEL because it was my first baby, and i wouldnt know how to push. So I got about an hours rest then the cramps came back fast and furious again. Only thing I got out of my epi was that DEAD leg!!!!

GhettoGurl · #60 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 10:02 PM

They send me home AGAIN!!!!!! OMG I thought I'd be on death row before ever getting to hold my baby .....

May 6th, back at the gyno at 7 am this time.... I was having heavy contractions and I had tears in my eyes ALL day, they made me wait my turn and I didnt get my turn until 6.30PM...... it was horrible.... at 8 pm I left the gyno after getting an infuse to stop the contractions.. a C-section was scheduled at 6.45am on May 7th Woooohoooo...

I was sooo tired and couldnt even walk no more... I was admitted to the hospital that night... at 6 am they came to pick my tiyad @ss up for surgery...

They stuck me with a needle in the back and I didnt even flinch.. The lady said in her 22 years working at the hospital she never saw a person so calm for that particular injection, I told her.. "Mam, I dont care about ANYTHING right now, this baby needs to come and FAST"

Nigel Matheus Anthony William was born on may 7th at 7.05 am

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