How important is it to you that your fiance gives you a diamond ring when he proposes to you? Would you accept a not-so-great ring from him? Does it matter?

Honestly, No..Ring don't matter to me...

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It doesn't matter the size, all that matters to me is that his actions are comng from his heart........so if that means he doesn't have a ring but he still proposes that's fine too.....

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The size and the style of the ring is not important what matters is that he loves me and wants to make me happy.
A ring is a material possession that money can buy, love is something nobody can buy

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So if yuh man come to yuh wid a cubic zirconium 'cause dat's all 'im cyan afford, oonu woulda still deh wid 'im?

Don't do a cubic, darling. Wait and do it right when you have the finances. Ask without the ring, still means the same. Just don't do it in front of a crowd of family/friends without a ring. This is real advice, Dig!

Mi hear weh yuh a seh dawta

Don't get it contorted babe ... mi naw pop nuh question anytime soon
Mi jus' a try ovastan' how oonu 'ooman mind werk.

Mi hear nuff ooman gi dem kind a talk 'bout di ring nuh matta, yet mek dem man eva gi dem a cheap ring an' dolly house mashup.

I see yuh. I understand. We really don't care about the ring, but we have standards when it comes to showing off to friends/family/coworkers. As much as you love your man. When you go into wuk di next day, and seh yuh get engaged, everyone fi seh, where di bling-bling. And yuh gyal will look like a chump!

So dat mean seh di ring is important den...

Not to us, boobay! It's just about status.

It wouldn't matter. I'm more hot for the marriage than the ring.
I'm not hot for engagements and their rings. I can buy me some, better yet, I have some.

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Yeah but baby, if status important to oonu, an' di ring carry status, den by transitivity, di ring is important to yuh too. Yuh simmi?

Mi tink dat a di ting weh flop nuff guy show wid ooman. Di status ting pressure di man dem fi spen' weh dem nuh have fi please di ooman. Di ones who cyaan do it get salt. Some who do it, still salt, because eena dem head dem still havit seh di ooman value di ring more dan dem feelings.

Sumpting fi marinate pon still...

I see yuh. Everybody, Every culture is different! I was engaged for a year, before I had a ring. I didn't care, I was so happy to be asked and in love at the time. But, mi parents vexed mi so about it. They seh stuff like, "Im cyannt get yuh no ring, how im gwaan support yuh." Words hurt, yuh see mi? We yankees and where I'm from status is everyting--house, cyar, job, jewelry, money! I didn't value the ring, but I value my parents/society's approval. I was young then though. I could care less at this point. I'm never getting married again, when this marriage done!

What is important that you know the what a ring symbolize.


The metal is hard and lasting!
The gold is the precious value from the heart.
The circle of the ring, means eternal, no ending!
The stone represents you, the reciever and
delivery of all his heart and soul put into this comment!

There is no need for materialistic items to show love,
are heart is the biggest piece of stone there is,
our love is the ring!

Peace!

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