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Old 08-29-2004, 08:57 PM
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Why is it that we are so attracted to people that are so opposite to us?

For example, why do the girls that live in the suburbs always hunt down some THUG NEGRO to fall in love with? I mean that's me all over the place! Why do you think that is?
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Old 08-29-2004, 11:27 PM
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Re: Opposites Attract

don't know and i don't think we r going 2 find out.....same as how some couples that you see on the rd, they are the opposite of each other but that is in our eyes to them they found something common between them or whatever.
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Old 08-29-2004, 11:41 PM
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Why is it that we are so attracted to people that are so opposite to us?
I am unsure but I know I like the opposite of who I am. I mean some things can be compaible, but not all. I tend to attract soft-spoken men. I am outspoken. Men who don't tlak much, I talk more. Well you got the general idea.

I guess it is to connect with the side of me that is dormant perce or that part of me that is just not apart of me.lol I guess it may be the same for others.

Be a ruffneck, attract a softy...to create that balance in the relationship.
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good point princess.......
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Re: Opposites Attract

I've attracted all kinds of men too....everything from ghetto thug which has its own unique attraction....right to nice gentlemen who hold good white collar jobs and double my income. I'm not sure which I prefer cause the thugs have a bit of excitement about them but I can't see them being a stable and favorable addition to my life for long term. The other guys are more relaxed and mild mannered and those are the ones I can imagine settling down with......but I still can't get over my insatiable desire to get down with a thug.

Anyways the one I'm with right now is the second type.....clean cut, well defined career, excellent income, even more stability than me. And YES he's still fun.....and quite to my surprise he's THA BOMB in bed too!
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Old 08-30-2004, 06:02 PM
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cause no one likes seeing themselves, we'd rather look at something else, we know us, so try something new, somethign new to cuss about something new to love.
I guess.
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I have to agree with you there Nandii.....a little something to stir the pot.
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Old 08-31-2004, 12:38 PM
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Re: Opposites Attract

Well I guess I can't be with any guy that's like me cuz I like too much attention and affection and I can reciprocate, but I guess I find it annoying for a guy to want as much attention from me! I dunno I'm jacked up like that! Also I hate being CROWDED... but I like lots of attention?? Anyway opposites attract but that doesn't always make something last that's for sure!
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Old 08-31-2004, 12:41 PM
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thats selfish ^
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thats selfish ^
So is having a sugar mommy
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Old 08-31-2004, 12:46 PM
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go weh an stop follow mi. crosses gial.
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Old 08-31-2004, 12:47 PM
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Re: Opposites Attract

Anyway I said I can reciprocate I like to. I just find that some guys like it to be ALL ABOUT THEM ALL THE TIME, and they don't give me room to breathe sometimes. They just want to control stuff, have your attention all the time... and what do they do for me? NOTHING!
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Old 08-31-2004, 12:48 PM
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what ... ever.........
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Re: Opposites Attract

Watch you trying to perplex my tranquilty bout WHATEVER

I am far from selfish I'm way to generous and if I knew how to be a REAL b**ch then I would be cuz the ones that I know get treted a lot better than I have!

Maybe I should buck up with someone EXACTLY like me then at least he'd understand where I'm coming from THUGS don't lol
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