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Old 07-11-2007, 11:49 PM
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Re: Love 'em or leave 'em?
I imagine this is meant to ask should we leave the one we are with to be with the one we are IN-LOVE with which changes the question but makes it no easier to answer…….HMMM. Depends I guess on where I am at in life. If I am with someone I love, (I expect that I once was “in-love” with that person) I would first ask if there is a higher purpose to us being together? Is there a reason to perhaps stay the course with the one I love even if it means sacrificing those incredible feelings of being in-love. If my answer is Yes, I would stay. I mean lets’ face it those euphoric “in-love” feelings do evolve eventually when we merge lives together day in and day out, year after year. Why would I believe this other person I am feeling in-love with now would be any different? If, however, I am with that someone I love purely out of comfort or feeling trapped or indebted to them, I would run as fast as I could to that one I am IN-LOVE with. I am a romantic (hence the name) so I would take the risk to follow my heart and spirit. I wouldn’t even hesitate.
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Old 07-12-2007, 03:09 AM
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You are 100% INCORRECT on that!

True love gives without expecting to get back.

True Love is not selfish.... and as such, nothing but the satisfaction of giving.

It is UNtrue love that expects and requires love in return.

I disagree!

The GREATEST, TRUE LOVE..is LOVING THYSELF FIRST.

...and you can't get more selfish than that.
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The GREATEST, TRUE LOVE..is LOVING THYSELF FIRST.
Took me years to learn that one!!!!
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when you find the one that comes along once in a lifetime......don't ever let them go......no matter what!
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what if your "once in a lifetime"... belongs to someone else????
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what if your "once in a lifetime"... belongs to someone else????
Hire a hit man.....LOLOLOLOL

Well I dunno really the answer to that......I guess if it really is that kinda love the universe will line things up for it in time....
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what if your "once in a lifetime"... belongs to someone else????
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what if your "once in a lifetime"... belongs to someone else????

Then that person is not for you! EVERYONE YOU MEET/EVERYTHING YOU DO HAPPENS for a reason...

You must decide whether to get on with your life while waiting for that person..because the timing isn't right at the moment.

OR

You must decide that the person really WAS NOT that "once in a lifetime" person but were really really close.
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Then that person is not for you! EVERYONE YOU MEET/EVERYTHING YOU DO HAPPENS for a reason...

You must decide whether to get on with your life while waiting for that person..because the timing isn't right at the moment.

OR

You must decide that the person really WAS NOT that "once in a lifetime" person but were really really close.
EXACTLY!!! If you don't realise why this person came into your life..eventually you will! Also....if the feeling is not mutual, then it's best to move along... God does have a plan for everyone...juss patience is required !
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So what if at that point in time in your life having a companion was good but then a DYNAMIC love that you waited for all your life comes along... do you leave or stay with the companion because they were their first even though you don't love them as much as the new DYNAMIC LOVE that you have met and know that this is the person who have waited for all your life??
DECISIONS, decisions, decisions...ha.
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So what if at that point in time in your life having a companion was good but then a DYNAMIC love that you waited for all your life comes along... do you leave or stay with the companion because they were their first even though you don't love them as much as the new DYNAMIC LOVE that you have met and know that this is the person who have waited for all your life??
DECISIONS, decisions, decisions...ha.
Ahhmm..
Isnt that kinda like the original question?

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What if...

You are with someone you love, but you are IN-LOVE with another...?

If that person is available....Do you think that you should leave the one you are with and be with the one you love?
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I disagree!

The GREATEST, TRUE LOVE..is LOVING THYSELF FIRST.

...and you can't get more selfish than that.
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Took me years to learn that one!!!!
I'm still learning! HOWEVER, it gets easier by the day. I'm a pretty cool chick, don't need anyone to tell me that.
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True love gives without expecting to get back.

True Love is not selfish.... and as such, nothing but the satisfaction of giving.

It is UNtrue love that expects and requires love in return.
I agree with this statement.

Also, I would leave another to be with someone I was IN-Love with - if and ONLY if I knew it was a mutual feeling. But then again, If I loved the person I was with but it wasn't a happy situation, I would leave anyhow - even if it meant to be on my own.
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