Single life - Is it hardier or easier to be single? - Jamaica Talk

SugarDrops · #1 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 04:06 PM

Single life is good still, no stress and heart ache!! But on the other hand its nice to have somebody to keep us warm on cold nights.

Blingee$ha · #2 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 04:36 PM

Easier by far. When you're single the only person you have to account for is yourself. It's easier to accomplish what you need to in order to be happy when the only thing you have to focus on is YOU... no distractions!

Princessblack · #3 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 04:46 PM

Great being single. Oh so much fun. Especially if you don't have any kids or someone accountable to. I come and go as I please. I wake up when I want to. Sleep when I want to. Cook if I want to. It's all good.

SugarDrops · #4 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 04:56 PM

Its called freedom. Free like a bird

Princessblack · #5 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 04:58 PM

SP...change de yellow so we can read it man.

SugarDrops · #6 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 05:03 PM

is that better !!!!!!!!!!

Princessblack · #7 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 05:06 PM

Now stay that way, before mi start call you-BADFONT!!!!!

SugarDrops · #8 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Princessblack

Now stay that way, before mi start call you-BADFONT!!!!!

LOL remember seh its not me name bashment girl, bg is the worst font up in here

genlin415 · #9 (**permalink**) 07-30-2004, 10:53 PM

EASIER!!!!

i was in a relationship for five years. When i was a couple i had to make sure that we were both okay physically, mentally....so much stress on me! i've been single going on two months and even though its not much time...i feel so free to come and go as I want....don't have to worry about anyone else but me! its EASIER to be single....in my opnion

Tia · #10 (**permalink**) 07-31-2004, 01:30 AM

i agree that it is easier to be single. you can do what you want when you want. i enjoyed it for awhile but then i started feeling lonely. the urge for me to be accountable for something is so strong! i've been taking care of foster children for several months and i wouldn't trade my lil man for the world. thankfully, my 2 yr old is versatile and "travel friendly" so whenever i wanna pick up and go he's all for it.

LuvJamaicanMen · #11 (**permalink**) 07-31-2004, 09:16 PM

Single Life is good...FOR A WHILE...after that you start to feel lonely and be in need of someone..

Pseu · #12 (**permalink**) 08-02-2004, 12:32 AM

For me, it was much harder to be single. Finding good men and playing the dating game was so hard. It's like a MEAT MARKET! Besides that, you have to always be on point--hair, nails, clothes, physique. When you're married, upkeep becomes the least of your worries.

Blingee$ha · #13 (**permalink**) 08-02-2004, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by pseudoyardie

For me, it was much harder to be single. Finding good men and playing the dating game was so hard. It's like a MEAT MARKET! Besides that, you have to always be on point--hair, nails, clothes, physique. When you're married, upkeep becomes the least of your worries.

You should always be on point married or not1 That's how I see it! In my opnion, you should be doing that for yourself! Besides, if a guy meets you at 130LBS and marries you, then that's probably what he's attracted to... mi nuh t'ink sey everybody fi skinny, but all people shoud look their best always

SugarDrops · #14 (**permalink**) 08-03-2004, 04:27 PM

I strongly feel that women are stronger than men when it comes to single life. Women are the ones who normally ends up with the children, have to work, cook and clean, do shopping and care the kids especially when they have to go to school or nursery.

When men are single they just run around and enjoy themselves,maybe having flings here and there andf no responsibility at all, the most they probably do is work to earn a living. If you compare between men and women you can definitely see that women tend to have more responsiblity and therefore we are much stronger.

JamCan · #15 (**permalink**) 08-04-2004, 09:24 PM

I'm about 50/50 on this whole topic. I LOVE being free and single most of the time cause what man is gonna say "okay honey" when I say I just booked mi a single trip to JA and didn't invite him?

But I also agree that it gets TERRIBLY LONELY at times! Sometimes I wanna be part of a couple just for the company. Also being part of a couple would make me feel less cheap and sleezy when I wanna have sex. Cause right now if I get some its not from a relationship, its just from convenience and sometimes that feel cheesy to me.